ok so i had/have this boyfriend who i dated for 6 months..and then for two months we split up but now we are back together. i REALLY love him alot. but the last time we went out he got into some bad stuff and made some pretty bad decisions, my family hates him....but i just dont care what he did or anything i just know i love him and wanna be with him as much as i can be. but did i do the wrong thing?
please help!
2006-08-13 15:19:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and all my friends are suportive like they know why i like him..i just am not sure.
2006-08-13 15:20:02 · update #1
Just because your family hates him doesn't mean you shouldn't be with him. If you love eachother then you should be together and your family is going to have to learn to respect your relationship. You might want to take heed to what your family says because they may see something that you don't and they probably have your best interests at heart. But, you need to follow your heart and make your own choices - your family is going to love you no matter what, so do what you think is best for you.
2006-08-13 15:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course your friends are supportive they probably have the same insight and intellectual abilities that you do! DA...6 months is 6 months, roughly 180 days or so..so you love him alot!! When he made those bad decisions and got into some bad stuff that was the nature of his character shining through and guess what???It was trying to show you what he's made up of oh yeah everyone make mistakes even smart, good people but my guess is that your parents hate him because of what potential harm he placed you in. YOU, who they've loved for a lot longer than 180 days. much as you may not want to hear it you can still love someone and not like their behavior. You, should care because the decisions you make now ...the choices you make can effect the rest of your life. Love is blind it doesn't have to be stupid. I wonder if your girlfriends who are so full of wisdom would want someone telling them just what they wanted to hear or the truth which often times when you're young and think you know it all is exactly what you're parents are trying to get through you poor love sick head!! really this is a no brainer... with age comes wisdom! I pray you don't stay addicted to this guy who spells trouble and who will take you down with him!
2006-08-13 22:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okaaayy....you're one hell of a confused chick.
Let me start by saying, you don't DOUBT something IF you're seriously in love with him...and I'm not sure what you mean by 'doing the wrong thing' means....
I'll say, your relationship with him in that 6 months is not sufficient to know him well as a person....same goes for an on/ off relation.
Nothing is as bad as having a 2nd try and yet unable to see the consequence from the doubts you're having now.
Try to look at a different perspective as i believe what your family is trying to get YOU to see.
2006-08-13 22:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really haven't told us what happened. That you love him, that's what does matter the most. But, how does he feel about you? Your family doesn't have to live with your decision, you do. The whole, "boyfriend- girlfriend thing", aka- relationships, can get so confusing. Either you're married or you're not! Anything else is just "playing around" at best, and fornication- usually.
But, hey, I wish you well, and hope your "boyfriend" feels as strongly about you.
2006-08-13 22:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by oneyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and don`t let your mind get in the way
Sometimes you have to let your heart lead you, even if you know it's not supposed to be where you're going
2006-08-13 22:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in your eyes you may have done the right thing but to your family NO they looking at you and there mad.. but just follow your heart you have the power to make him change
2006-08-13 22:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy LoVe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant stop loving ur b/f even though he got in 2 some bad situations and ur family cant stop u from loving him its ur choice not ur family's.
2006-08-13 22:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect the opinion of your family members, they are your best friend and your well wisher.
2006-08-13 22:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by skp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him! there are other fish in the sea!
2006-08-13 22:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by imurheaven22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely nothing wrong.
2006-08-13 22:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by Japh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋