Usually my boyfriend after work will stop by my house at night because he works at a restraunt around 9 930 ..which is cool. But tonight when he did it I was like what are you doing tonight lets do something he said he cant because he has to meet up with his boxing trainer who is introducing him to someone (very important) for his boxing career anyway hes like maybe ill stop by after. he knows i have work early in th emorning and says he feels like he keeps me up but i want to hangout with him. should i be mad if we end up not hanging out? or i am getting upset over nothing?
2006-08-13 15:12:19 · 5 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like he has a very good reason for not stopping over and as long as it doesn't become an every night thing so that you are taking a back seat to his career its not worth getting upset and getting into a big fight over but that also doesn't mean you don't have a right to feel a little hurt if you truly love him stand behind him and chances are he will remember that and you have a happier stronger relationship in the long run for having done it
2006-08-13 15:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by lonly_male4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you care for someone you want the very best for them and you want what they want for themselves. Sometimes that means you have to take a step back. You have to decide if being supportive is more important than hanging out.
2006-08-13 22:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Upset over nothing
2006-08-13 22:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you're upset over nothing. Stand by your man in whatever endeavor he chooses. He will appreciate it. I hope this helps.
2006-08-13 23:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is something really important in his life you should let it go. but if this happens a lot you should dump him
2006-08-13 22:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by night_fox51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋