I married this man and we are together for almost four years. When i get to other country to work he started cheating on me. Some of my friends told to me that her cousin and my husband go on dating. Lots of more girls that his courting. When i got a chance to go back home, and i ask him all the things that i heard, and he admitted that is true.Now that im here again in other country i cant get out of my mind that he gonna do it again. Should i trust him again?
2006-08-13 14:36:22 · 15 answers · asked by sweet_angle 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Heck NO. I wouldn't and I think that a lot of other women wouldn't either. It's completely understandable that you would not trust him right now. At least when you get back you'll know that he'll admit it if you and him and he did. You know since he did last time. When you talk to him next just tell him how you feel (do it nice and calmly) and ask him if you can trust him. He'll most likely give you a straight answer. If he says yes, then I guess that you can give him the benefit of the doubt until you get home. Then, when you do get home, you can check out his story. If he admits that you can't, be strong and tell him that because of his cheating you want out of the relationship. You gave him a chance and he ruined it. It's ok to feel this way don't put yourself down for it at all! It's his fault that he cheated on you before not yours, so HE GAVE you these feelings.So, just be strong and Definitely trust these feelings that you're having.
2006-08-13 17:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Curious&can'twait 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on you, but how i say - once a cheater is always a cheater. Where all his love gone when you left? Does he really truly loves and cares about you?
Only honest talking and decision that you both will make will lead you out from this situation.
Follow your heart but don't forget to listen to mind too.
I hope you both will work out it.
2006-08-13 14:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by MysteriousCat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a man cheats once and is ashamed of the fact, is one thing. but this sounds like he does it every chance he got and is quite proud of his achievements.ditch the scum. there is a far better life out there for you, even alone for a while!
2006-08-13 16:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by wifeofsickening 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like dealing with the feelings you have about his escapades, keep him in your life. If you don't, you know what you need to do. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior so you know what the future will bring.
2006-08-13 14:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just revert to Islam
2006-08-13 14:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater
2006-08-13 14:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, get rid of him and find someone that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated!
2006-08-13 14:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. He doesn't deserve any trust.The real question is should you divorce or not... which is up to you
2006-08-13 14:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve SO much better . . . you'll know the right man when you meet him, so try to move one. . . good luck!
2006-08-13 14:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by manateeluver32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, get out, you deserve better.
2006-08-13 14:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by ♥HeidiJustine♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋