i say mabey when things r better and less stressful with my parents but she will not lesson
2006-08-13 14:30:40 · 22 answers · asked by D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive been in this situation before. she probably just really likes you and cant get over you. but she just have to come to the realization that its not going to work. its painful but its better knowing then thinking its going to work and its not. i had to find that out the hard way. so its better to just keep telling her the truth then to lead her own. she'll eventually get over it. and if you want it might be best to avoid her for a couple days, so things can calm down.
2006-08-13 14:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by stressed&depressed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes a long time to break up with someone...part of the reason is that people break up for so many reasons and some of the reasons are really about getting back together...Think about why you wanted to break up...if you are not telling her the real reason because you don't want to upset her...then you are going to keep on getting what you have been getting....if you are telling her the real reason then you are going to have to ask her to be patient and be patient with her too...asking her to wait for you is really asking a lot.
2006-08-13 14:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be firm with her and that means you are going to have to hurt her feeling if you really want her to leave you alone. You are going to have to tell her to leave you alone, and in front of others if possible, tell her that you are tired of her stalking you. Tell her that you don't have feelings for her anymore and are planning on going out with someone else. Your life is no longer her concern and if she doesn't leave you alone, you will inform her parents of her stalking you. If that doesn't do it, maybe you should talk to the girls parents because she seriously has a screw loose! Good luck!
2006-08-13 14:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u know wat make her listen make sure she gets the point. Girls don't think the same way guys do. You might think she understood u maybe she didn't. If she still doesn't get it than maybe she's not right for you. Take sometime out four u self. don't stress. Anything that gives a lot of drama most of the time isnt worth keeping.
2006-08-13 14:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Chelly luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start ignoring her BIG TIME!!! Do not respond to her phone calls, emails etc. Block emails, delete and block her as IM contacts. After a while she will get the hint and leave you alone. If you keep responding to her she will think she still has a chance with you.
2006-08-13 14:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her to leave you alone. Maybe there is something she didn't get when YOU broke up with her. Just set it straight, and tell her you are not looking for a relationship right now. Good Luck!!!1
2006-08-13 14:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that right now you're not into having a girlfriend. Tell her maybe you two can still talk occasionally (if that's what you want)but right now it would be better if you keep things as they are.
2006-08-13 14:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you have a new girlfriend at Thisandthat school. Or, tell her you just aren't interested. Doing things that turn her off are good, too. I'll tell you one thing: if anything gets on a lot of girls nerves, it's butt touching. Keep it out of school, though.
2006-08-13 14:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Leafy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you gave her a "maybe", so perhaps she thinks your relationship is on the rocks, but not over.
If it's over, you have to step up to the plate and tell her firmly that it's over. None of this "maybe" stuff -- that's a lame way to break up with someone.
2006-08-13 14:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must really like you a lot, or love you and shes very attatched this is why she keeps asking you back out. if you don't want anything to do with her or your not interested cut all communication off with her. don't lead her on, it will make things worse. if you tell her maybe then she will keep asking you out
2006-08-13 14:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by thisisnicole20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋