If all she wants from her man is:
1) To buy a home one day.
2) A man with good education.
2) A man with a good job.
2006-08-13 14:19:50 · 20 answers · asked by Bachelor boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's not a gold digger but a woman who knows what she wants. The only problem I see here is that I don't see Love anywhere on that list. Do you not want a man that loves you or that you can love along with those things? Those things really don't mean much with out love. If those 3 things are truly all you want from a man, then I guess that would just make you more superficial but not a gold digger.
2006-08-13 14:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Chaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would this be considered a gold digger...perhaps if the list was as follows
1. buy a million dollar home
2. a man with 3 masters degrees in engineering
3 a man with a 7 didget paying job
Then perhaps we would have a gold digger.
2006-08-13 21:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by JOEYSMOM2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go out and by yourself a home, get a good education and get a good job. There is nothing wrong with a man having all that, it just makes me wonder whether you are just going to sit at home everyday and spending all his money. A home you can buy together, a good education..........well that's up to the individual and a good job........if he gets lucky and if not.......so what!!
2006-08-13 21:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by Tigerlilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A gold digger is a woman or man who marries a person because of the money, thinking that they will A.) benefit from the money with the other person who they don't love or B.) inherit the money when the person is dead.
2006-08-13 21:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by Mama R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think those are smart "needs" in contrast to wanting a "cute" guy. She wants to have a stable life, every woman does.
She is a gold digger if she wants diamonds, sports cars, etc. If you don't mind buying them for her, that's another matter. Then it's up to you.
2006-08-13 21:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by white_falcon21 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A gold digger wants diamonds and mansions and big fancy limos and servants,etc.
Tell that boy he is lucky to have such a sensible girl and he better get on the stick and measure up to your standards. Good luck! (to both of you!)
2006-08-13 21:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No... Not even close... A gold digger just marries the man for his money... No REAL relationship... She's just one of his purchases...
2006-08-13 21:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is with him solely for the reasons listed then YES she is a gold digger. BUT if she is with him becuase she loves him then no, shew isn't a gold digger.
2006-08-13 21:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If those are her only qualifications for her husband then she is a gold digger. wanting security from a partner is not a big deal.
2006-08-13 21:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by thenuge426 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what your definition of home and good job are. If you want to buy a $10,000,000 home one day, and if your idea of a good job is one that allows you to buy a $10,000,000 home one day, then yes. But if you just want a regular, 3br/2ba home and you consider a good job one that allows him to pay half of all the bills, then no, that's quite normal.
2006-08-13 21:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋