I have to ask this. I saw my 17 y/o neice hug her grandpa goodby, they kissed a peck on the lips, and she wrapped her arms around him and grab his a s s
with both hands briefly. (Grandma has passed away 6 years ago). Grandpa has a girlfriend now, but still this happens). He did not pull away...and they always seem to have bits of time for this kind of "closeness" including secret tiny words when they part. I hate to think something is not right. I need opinions.
Is this behavor appropriate? Be blunt.
2006-08-13 14:14:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No it must of been an innocent thing. Most people that are molested will not want to even touch the person that molested them. Especially there behind. You can talk to her and ask her if anything is wrong.
2006-08-13 14:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That behavior is not appropriate. It doesn't necessarily mean something inappropriate is going on, but the behavior is not acceptable.
You seem like a sensible person, if you don't like what you see, you can be sure something is not right.
Good luck in dealing with this.
2006-08-13 14:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's pretty much SICK. There's no excuse for grabbing a grandpa's behind like that. That behavior is totally wrong and disgusting. <3
2006-08-13 14:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never understood the whole peck on the lips thing.to me its just werid and not right . maybe your niece is a freak and grandpa may just be to old to really get whats going on .whatever is going on it has to stop someone should talk this little girl and see whats going on .if noone in the family wants to do it you guys should take her to a professional .good luck and please address the issue
2006-08-13 14:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not appropriate. You need to sit down and talk to your daughter about this. I may not have had parents, siblings, and?or grandparents but I do know that is insist and you need to talk to her Grandpa also about it. Talk to both of them and state how you are feeling and please if you have to stop her and her granpa's visits if they continue to keep doing what they are doing.You are your daughters parent. she may be angry at first but she will later realize that you doing it for her own safety. Good Luck!
2006-08-13 14:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by tntdaddysgirl33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely Not appropriate
2006-08-13 14:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by D B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your neice needs help from family members. Besides, your grand father needs help from some psychiatrist.
2006-08-13 14:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by skp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say no and I'd talk to her and him both. am a survivor of incest so am very cautious. be careful if you're gut is telling u it's not right then act on it. I'd rather be safe than sorry.
2006-08-13 15:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by sshhorty2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a bit creepy...I would keep an eye out to see if there are more instances and clues...It just doesn't sound right.
2006-08-13 14:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird and inappropriate. find out what's going on and make her tell, otherwise inform her you will have social services do the interviewing.
2006-08-13 15:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋