2006-08-13 14:01:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
what battle? you have free will. you do no have to marry or stay married to anyone. just leave. screw everyone else that has a 'stake' in it. it's your life. do what you want.
2006-08-13 14:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could see that happening. I sort of did a dumb thing to help me through it, which a lot of people do, but I don't really recommend...I "fell in love" with someone else. I suppose it made things easier. I didn't do it intentionally, but on some level, I suppose it is what helped me get through it. Anyway, if you can be stronger than I was, that probably isn't the best idea. If you do "fall in love" during or soon after the divorce, just realize that it may not really be the real deal (more like someone to lean on).
You should consider group or individual therapy, especially if your suicidal thoughts are real.
When you can put this whole mess behind you, there is a whole great world and a great YOU with lots of life yet to live. Believe me!
2006-08-13 21:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by lorgurus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It did for me...my break-up was a very messy and nasty business, and it hit me incredibly hard.
My now ex wife is diabetic, and I was about 10 seconds away from shooting myself with 100 units of R-insulin. Obviously I didn't do it, and now that I look back I am glad I held back. I've had a tremendous life, and am thankfull for everything I got to experience...even the bad things.
2006-08-13 21:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my divorce was a huge relief for the both of us. We were going in two different directions, and we knew it. We actually had a kind parting, and I like his wife.
2006-08-13 21:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Battlerattle06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but stepping out for a pack of smokes is easier
2006-08-13 21:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by cvegas229 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋