ok theres this boy in my church youth group thats realllllyyyyyyyy hott!! And during the church sesion the youth leader/speaker said to go around and say help to some new ppl...and the boy...my age (13) came over to me and said hi and waved and i said hello and waved back...he really seemed nice and sweet...and he was sooooo frikin hott. what should i do next week at church for him to notice me even more?
2006-08-13 13:52:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go up to him after church and talk to him..it might seem scary at first cuz ur young and awkward..but trust me..im 19..and talking to boys is nooo big deal at ALL..just go up and ask him if he has seen a certain show or give him a compliment or something..anything to open up the conversation..once you initiate the conversation it will be set..then it wont feel so weird talking to him in later weeks.be confident..dont be shy..remember..if he came up to you and said hi he took the first step...now its up to you to talk to him...i doubt he will come up and talk to you..not because he doesnt like you...but because at that age boys are waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay way less mature then girls and he would prbly crap his pants..just be your sweet self and im sure everything will turn out how you want it.good luck :)
2006-08-13 13:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by kelkel0514 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be rude or nothing, but you not supposed to go to church to flirt or nothing, he noticed you once already apparently. Just listen to the preacher, and as long as you two are in the same youth group you're bound to see each other again anyway. If though perhaps you see him in the mall or something and you want his attention, then try asking him what he thinks about the church so far. As long as he gives you a decent answer, you will be able to continue asking questions like if he says
Him: I like the church alot, hearing the choir is the best part
you: i never knew you7 liked the choir
Him: I liked it since i as 7
you: maybe you should try out
BLAH BLAH BLAH
see? member stay focused while at church
2006-08-13 21:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by ~luminary legacy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite how you may "feel" about this, it will totally work: Be extra nice and/or flirtacious with ALL the other guys EXCEPT him. Make sure he notices. If he tries to approach you, don't put up a brick wall, but just be kind of casual, maybe hesitant, at first, and then little by little start to be nicer and more flirtacious with him. He'll definitely be into it.
2006-08-13 21:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. See if you have any common interests. Maybe a date or some activity together could happen.
2006-08-13 20:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by nichole9853 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make your move but first wait for him if he makes a move and then you could go but if you have your guts go and start a converstaion then ask if he wants to go out or for his phone number just keep it good and dont feel stupid or weird after you do fell happy
2006-08-13 21:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Strike up a conversation.
2006-08-13 20:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be yourself...he will notice you and don't scare him off by trying so hard. He is there to learn about the Lord...aren't you?
2006-08-13 20:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by cheryl w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him smile and just be yourself develop a friend ship then move on from there
2006-08-13 20:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by --Just like That-- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you ever get a chance, ask if he wants to work together on something.
2006-08-13 20:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marry me
2006-08-13 21:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋