why does it seem that the one person you adore and love suddenly dissapears from the grasp of your hands and even thoug you try so hard to get her back you cant succeed - why does it seem that the only times you were happy was when you were next to that special someone - why if you love someone so much and you would do any thing for her why o why would god put a barrier between us that i cant brake nor crosss WHY ????
2006-08-13 13:52:09 · 9 answers · asked by hydro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not God my friend. God does not prevent people from having good things happen to them in life. If you read the bible it tells you that the devil is the one who does so and God is the one who gives us choice. The devil does these things to test our faith in God and try to make us sin so he will have a grasp on us. Now that I've said that...sometimes when you love someone with all your heart they may not love you back and if you truly love them then you have to let them go because you only want them to be happy right? So by letting them go they get a chance to find that person that they love and will be happy and though it's hard seeing them hapy should also make you happy. The hard part is then having love for them but not loving them. In other words you don't have to stop caring about them you just have to realise that they aren't the one meant for you because if that was the case they would be in love with you and be with you right now. Feel free to care about them but that must change to a friend level over time so that you can go out in the world again and find someone who shares the same love that you have for them.
2006-08-14 16:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I ask myself that same question. I just have to keep believing that there is someone that is better for me and that's why things didn't work out. It's tough to have such strong feelings for someone, and yet they decide to let the relationship go. I feel that it will all come back around on him, someone he loves more than anything in the world is going to do the same thing to him, and in due time, I will find the man I was meant to be with.
2006-08-13 20:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all go through times where the people we love, we lose. It's a part of life and the struggle doesn't end there. If you use each goodbye as a lesson learned you will not feel so empty.
2006-08-16 14:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by Luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why continue wanting what you cannot have? There are over six billion of us (humans) here. Maybe not all in your particular neighborhood, but, there are so many others out there. You seem too young to be limiting your options so soon in life. Get over it. Get over her. And move on. Save the angst for your poetry.
2006-08-13 20:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by virgoascendant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worse has happened to me, I like one guy, but he doesn't like me. But another guy friend likes me, and I don't see it, then I learn about it after it's too late. So I lose anyways. It gets on my nerves sometimes, anyways, you'll find someone else that you can't live without. And who knows, you or she may do something right this time. Good luck.
2006-08-13 21:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think God had anything to do with it? Seems to me SHE decided to dump your ***. Not too mention, if there was some girl you were tired of being with and SHE came back to you AGAIN and AGAIN to try to win you back, do you think you'd love her more or start getting sick of her? Yeah, that's what I thought.
2006-08-13 21:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only god knows
2006-08-13 20:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a thats life
2006-08-13 20:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r not alone it the same for every body
2006-08-13 21:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by soran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋