My girlfriend is ready to stop sex long before I am. She says that looses interest after a short while. She reaches climax within approx. 10-15 minutes and that's it. What can I do to get her to play for longer?
2006-08-13 13:16:25 · 13 answers · asked by blamurfen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't approach this so one sided looking for ways to keep her interested in things longer, try suggesting foreplay that would keep you 'going' for less time.
2006-08-13 13:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to talk to her. Something is missing here. Does she know women can climax multiple times? Are you sure she isn't faking and wanting to get out of something that doesn't turn her on? Talk to her, try things her way, approach her with an open mind.
2006-08-13 20:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's bored.. If all you can do is bang for 15 minutes, thats not entertaining for any woman.
You need to get with the program. You need to extend the foreplay. don't give it to her until she's ready to climb on, and then don't give it to her for a few more minutes..
2006-08-13 20:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by sansjazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change positions often.
Put her on top but tell her to take it slow.
Try new positions that don't stimulate her as much.
Tell her to tell you when she is getting close to orgasm, when she does, stop moving, or withdraw and ask her to use her hand to get you close too, then finish.
Consider that she may be lying about her orgasms. Maybe she doesn't have them with you and for this reason loses interest.
2006-08-13 20:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by jean c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her reach orgasm. When she's just about there stop for a minute until you catch up. This is so not how it usually goes. LOL
2006-08-13 20:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing really you can do! Maybe if you foreplayed for longer before sex, there would be more excitement for you both!
2006-08-13 20:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a new girlfriend, your needs are just as important as hers, if shes not willing to satisfiy you move on. Tell her to go for the second (or 3rd) climax... WHOOHOOO!
2006-08-13 20:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if you know that we can have multiples orgasms...so try to tell her that and try to figure out how you are going to make her feel excited to go for a second or more rounds...
i can have 11 orgasms at one time! tell her it´s great
2006-08-13 20:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you give her intensive pleasure during foreplay. Try to cool it down.
2006-08-13 20:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by Kiwi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vary your technique. Go down on her, caress her, take your time. Try a vibrator. Most girls are multi-orgasmic if you don't just hammer away.
2006-08-13 20:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋