Okay i have a huge problem I have been going out with this guy for about 8 months. And I am starting to really like this other guy who i know likes me back but i dont want to dump my boyfriend cause i still kinda like him and i know that no other guy right now will treat me the same way. What should i do? Stay with the guy or dump him.
2006-08-13 13:07:54 · 28 answers · asked by vballgirl103 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop using people and being selfish.
Leave him and everybody else alone until you work out your issues.
2006-08-13 13:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to follow your heart. Love is not a game. Either you love the person that you are with or you don't. If you have your doubts about the way you feel about the guy you are with, then you need to think things over.
Dumping someone for another person is pretty low. Remember what goes around does eventually come back around and it will hit you very hard.
2006-08-13 20:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need to ask yourself if you are just flattered by this other guys attention......if you really like the guy you are with, then just take the other guys attention as a compliment. There are no guarantees out there how someone will treat us until we spend time with them to know for sure. It really doesn't sound like you care as much as you should for the guy you are with if you are already interested in someone else after only 8 mo. If you are young, then date different guys without going together. When you are young you don't need to be tied down, but getting to know different types of people.
2006-08-13 20:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your real life issues are much like volleyball huh?? Back and forth. The best thing you can do for these two guys is to leave them both alone and stay single until you're about 85 years old. Seriously you'd be doing a lot of guys a HUGE favor!!!
2006-08-13 20:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kyra B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good guy is hard to find. If I already had one I would keep him so I say stay. You never know what will happen with this other guy but you already know what will happen with your current boyfriend. Keep your boyfriend because if you leave him you may never get him back if the other guy turns out to be an idiot!
2006-08-13 20:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Quit being a will 'o the wisp or you'll get a bad reputation.
The huge problem that you talk seems to be you have trouble with commitment.
2006-08-13 20:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would analyze my realationship now before i go looking for another man... if your man is treating you like the queen you are and he respects you, stay, if however you feel the slightest bit of doubt that this realationship is worth losing, dump him now before things get way to serious and spare him the heartache
2006-08-13 20:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by jinxygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to listen to what your heart tells you and if that means having a break from boys for a couple of weeks than do it. it will help clear your mind. So stay or dump......... I say stay.
2006-08-13 20:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by Silverfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol I can tell you're a volleyball player, so am I! If you think the relationship would be better with the other guy, then go for it. Just don't cause too much trouble with your present boyfriend.
2006-08-13 20:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the guy you haved loved for 8 months only if you really love him.. if you don't love him that much try something new like that other boy for example! =) good luck with your choice!
2006-08-13 20:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still " kinda like" him? After 8 months you should more than "kinda like" him. Don't waste his time. Break it off. I think that if you even have to ask, you've answered your own question really.
2006-08-13 20:11:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋