So, my boyfriend today dumped me for a 16 year old girl who put out. Like who is literally a whore and giggles non-stop.. after she says something she has to think about it and then say yes that's what I meant to say or no I didn't mean to say that and start over.. I'm 17 and I'mr eally smart, he's 20. And, I'm a good girl, and I was brought up thikning that's what guys wanted, someone who was considerate, and sweet, and caring, and nice... and that's who I am, but I can't seem to figure out what's wrong with me? so.. from a guys prospective, I'd really like to know what to work on.. but don't get me wrong, I'm not passive, I'm actually a little spitfire..
2006-08-13 12:51:51 · 32 answers · asked by ashdyann3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going to go by what you say and what you don't say.
1. If you are smart you probably intimidated him. Some guys do not like smart girls, it makes them feel inadequate. (Yes boys are weird)
2. You said she is a whore and puts out. I am assuming you don't. He might have said you are smart and sweet to get into your pants.
3. Try getting this girl in a threesome with you and your boyfriend. Guys love threesomes. He will like you more if you can be "into it" more than she can. Rip her clothes off in front of him, feel her up and french kiss her at the same time. He will notice.
2006-08-13 13:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The problem is you shouldn't be with guys that old. No way should a 20 year old be with a 16 year old or 17 year old even if it is 3 or 4 years apart. That's why there are laws against that sort of thing. High school girls should be with high school boys, not men. Age makes a big difference at that age. And unfortunately, most guys do not want nice girls, at that age they just want casual sex, not a relationship. You should call the cops on this guy if he is with a 16 year old.
2006-08-13 12:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you is obvious
1 > you come off like a little spitfire tart ho skank on the outside.
2 > you want sweet, and caring, and nice and respect as a good girl on the inside.
rather obvious really
Your boyfriend wanted a tart
... when he discovered you were not going to be a ho ...
he left you for a tart .
This is not hard to figure out girl .. just look in the mirror and be honest about how you have been presenting yourself.
Clearly your outside fails to match your inside.
Decide who you are and be that person.
.
2006-08-13 13:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r the way u should be. Guys like girls w/ a touch of a "wild" side at times though but that doesn't mean u should turn into a chick from girls gone wild lol. U just need 2 wait 4 the right, mature guy 2 accept u 4 the way u r.
2006-08-13 13:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL guys are dumb... when you are 17 you dont have much in common with a 20 y/o first off... guys will always dump a good girl for some noni... however when the guy decides to chill out and be real with someone he will and he will want someone like you.... as for now i would look for anything to serious you have a long time before you need to settle down just "live life"
2006-08-13 12:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by jinxygrl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are the type of girl that a mature man will want to marry, and that will end up with the richer business person latter in life.
The other girl is a bimbo basicly from what you are saying and stupid guys just wanting sex go after that type of girl
2006-08-13 12:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 20 yo all a guy can think adout is getting laid it is better to have a girl that puts out than get blue balls everytime you are with someone blue balls is not a myth they don't turn blue but they really do hurt alot maybe he just got sick of trying to get into your pants I know if i had a 17 yo gf that didnot give it up she would not be my girl for very long
2006-08-13 12:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me there is nothing wrong with you.He just doesn't know how lucky he was. Some guys dont know what they have got till its is gone.But ensure you act mature around him not like the 16 year old girl but try to act his age. Good luck.
2006-08-13 13:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by king s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think there is something wrong with you, when he was the jerk? what kind of man do you want, one who is loyal or a cheat. You've seen one kind, there are plenty of both. learn from what you've experienced, don't blame yourself because you chose one of the many immoral people, you have no way of knowing until you get to know them. 17, you got a lot of life ahead to experience what you have been taught is right!!!!!!!!
2006-08-13 13:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to date guys over 30. That's when guys start to appreciate good women. Under 30 year olds go only for looks and sex.
2006-08-13 12:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋