i was dating a guy and he left me and i still don't really know why, we were doin just great and then suddenly he just ended it and i didn't know till like today and he's already found someone else.
2006-08-13 11:50:47 · 18 answers · asked by titany_101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tiffany,
There are going to be times within our lives where people that we thought had our best interests at heart ended up causing us the most pain; At a time like this, I will say this: look for the lesson from this relationship. then wish him well and move on from it; dwelling on it won't help. Work your body to exercise, dance, write in your journal, work on something you can put your time towards. Check out a nursing home where there are folks that get NO visitors; if there is an interest that you was into to, check it out online and go for it; for instance, last August, I found out about some postcard and swap clubs and since then, I have gotten a whole lot of postcards from each continent except Africa and stuff. I hope it helps. take care. also check out www.43things.com and allconsuming.net, you can make lists and make goals on things to do and meet some folks. I hope it helps. peace.
2006-08-13 12:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by savvyladydiamond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 04:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Miles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has suffered something similar to what you ask and there is know really right answer to give you. The broken heart heals on its own and it takes its own time. Give yourself sometime to let it heal and hang out with friends. You may have ignored some of them while you have been with this guy and they might really appreciate having some more time to spend with you. The only real lesson I have learned from experience that I have had similar to your is that in the long run I have always been a better person and the later relationships I have had are better because of the great insight I have learned about myself and others.
I am sure this time right now it hurts - these are good times to listen to advice from friends and family - people who evidently care more about you than this guy did as hard as that might be to deal with. Keep your chin up and you'll find someone - just take your time - no rush or you might find yourself with someone and say to yourself - what the hell am I doing with him.
2006-08-13 12:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's usually why they end it sweetie. The best revenge is looking good they say! Besides, if you mope around, you'll end up not taking care of your looks, and all that. Dress sharp, Try a new hair style, at least you'll know you look good and that can help you feel good too. Plus, you just might attract some really great guy! I know you're hurting, we've all been there, or to you younger ones, probably will at some time or another. (Like me, for my 10th annivarsary, I got my husbands marriage papers to another woman placed in my hands....by her!) Nothing can heal the pain but time, but it will come. Just try to stay active with your friends, and keep lookin' hot! It's ok to go ahead and cry for now, but then get over it, and move on. Good luck sweetie, I wish you all the best.
2006-08-13 12:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by vspaulo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its part of the "rollercoster" called life. There will be good moments and yes there will be times of loss,despair,betrayl and all these "down" moments will test you. I suggest that you indulge in something pleasurable today, you pick the sweets and treats but take the time and effort to really treat yourself well today. Remmeber this. How you handle this emotion will efect the way you treat yourself and your next future boyfrien, or future husband. Look at as an opportunity to build character for yourself, learn to let go. Wish the best for you ex-boyfriend and move foward. You should watch a good movie today?
2006-08-13 12:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by charlesncharge 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry sweetheart. I ve been in such pain before long ago and I know how it feels. There is no sure way to stop the pain. Its been five years for me and Im still in love with another person who was too far away so I had to marry someone else. I will never have the wone I have loved like no other. I have had to accept it. There are times I wanted to die. Life is rough. Try to find comfort with friends for awhile and then in a couple weeks you may want to try dating again. Good luck.
2006-08-13 11:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is really verri hard to get over a guy whom u love so much... but he cheated on u... and already have found a new gal... this showed tat he didnt love u at all... if he love u, he wouldnt have juz ended the relationship like no one's else business... without any reason.... gal.. the best thing u can do now is move on with life and with time, u will forget about that heartless jerk... do things to keep ur mind off this matter.... get frenz to accompany u.... it will work... take care.....
2006-08-13 12:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by sadgal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've just learned a life lesson that all humans are not perfect. I suggest that you start dating other guys immediately, and refrain from focusing on the pain caused by the past.
2006-08-13 11:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's already found someone else----be glad he's gone. He's a creep. He'll do the same thing to her that he did to you. Time. Give yourself time and you will be fine. You'll see.
2006-08-13 11:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he left you to pursue a life with the other person
you can get over him by doing the same
2006-08-13 11:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋