I've been single for a long tine and it's the 1st time I let someone get this close to me, thinking she was young that it would be fun for both of us. Just wanting to do the right thing..
2006-08-13 11:46:10 · 8 answers · asked by James L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it but does she feel the same?
2006-08-13 11:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you're in a relationship there is a chance for hurt. That is why you need to know someone well enough before sex to be able to love & trust that person.
You need to have an open & honest discussion with your girlfriend. How does she feel about the age difference? A man your age is VERY sexy & distinguished, but how is she going to feel when you're 70 and she's only your age now? Would you , right now, be interested in a 70 year old woman?
What about children? Can you be the right kind of father to them? None of us are guarenteed tomorrow, but are you healthy enough to help her raise them to adulthood?
Is she even ready for marriage? We see things far differently at 23 then we even do at 33.
And why are you considering this? Are you afraid of being alone? Why would you want to chain this young woman to an older man? Have you been married before? Have children? I question your motives.
If you can discuss this all and MUCH more with her and still come to the conclusion that you both want to go the distance......
2006-08-13 11:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 15 years, hypothetically speaking, when you're 63 and she's 48 hopefully you'll both feel the same way about each other or someone is going to get hurt.
2006-08-13 13:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by dianee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a great person for thinking of others.. You have to think of her age, she has a lot to learn and grow. She will say she hates you for letting her go but in the long run she will love you for thinking of her and not being selfish. You are a grown man and she is a baby compaired next to your brain. You might love her but she will have to take care of you one day if you get sick and I think she will probably leave.. Think long term.. Zella
2006-08-13 11:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to find herself a guy close to her age. Someone who can keep up and provide excitement in the relationship. She should be asking the questions on what to do, not you.
2006-08-13 11:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by NïghtStalkër_666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its most likely not gonna work long term. Talk to her. See how she feels. How long have you been dating? You might just be trying to fill a void with her. Try dating someone your own age.
2006-08-13 11:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you must have a nice car and some ca$$$$$$$h.
Way to score.
2006-08-13 11:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your gonna get hurt.. sorry. think of when you were 23>
2006-08-13 11:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋