Me and this guy have been "unofficially" together for a month now. Neither one of us see anyone else. Every once in a while he says he's going to ask me out or I'm going to be his soon. He started saying stuff like that 2 weeks ago && he still hasn't made if official.
What's going on?
2006-08-13 11:38:22 · 7 answers · asked by fallinghard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know he's ready for a commitment. He told me from the begining he didn't want to play games, that he wanted a relationship. He knows I want to be with him. So it's not like he's waiting to see what I say or do about it. I do trust him though, so I seriously doubt there's anyone else. That's why this is all so confusing.
2006-08-13 11:53:21 · update #1
I don't know but maybe he's playing with your emotions. Talk to him and communicate how you feel about what he's saying. Tell him not to get your hopes up since this is confusing you and I'm not sure if it's hurting you either. If it is hurting you communication is the best solution to your problem. Maybe he's waiting for you to make the move. If you really like him and feel ready then make the first move. If he says I'm not ready for a commitment yet, then give him some more time and wait for him to make the move next. Don't pressure him or else you'll probably scare him away.
2006-08-13 11:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd wonder what that meant exactly before I made it "official". He's scared, honey. Give the guy a break, will ya? It's not like you're married. Carry on like you always do and give him some breathing room and give yourself permission to be young and enjoy going out with a few guys; not limiting yourself to just one.
2006-08-13 11:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's hinting around, to see what you'll say about it. hes probably just waiting for the right oppurtunity.
2006-08-13 11:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him about it if you really like him tell him it will make him want to go out with you more good luck
2006-08-13 11:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has someone else on the side hunny there is no reason he shouldnt be wit u
2006-08-13 11:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by my heart belongs to a sailor! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has someone eles on the side, beware!
2006-08-13 11:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he has what did you say when he said what he said????
2006-08-13 11:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by Norman S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋