Just wondering what you guys with more experience think about this situation because I am confused. Me and my gf of 2 years broke up about 3 weeks ago. That is fine and I am working on getting over it. She broke it off and is seeing some other guy. The problem is she keeps calling me. I am moving to FL and she tells me to please not. She gets hurt when I tell her there is no future for us. She says this guy is nothing but they hang out every other day. She acts like she doesnt like him but Im not a fool and why would she hang out with him all the time most likely hooking up with him. I am confused why she calls me and acts like she wants me still when she has a new guy and broke it off. Could it be because her family loves me so much. I do not get it. What do you think and what should I do?
2006-08-13 11:14:15 · 6 answers · asked by picklesmoocher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, respectfully, who cares? There's no future with her regardless of she does or does not do about this other guy. Bottom line--is she doing what it takes to have a successful relationship with you? The answer is a simple 'no.'
Part of the brain is wired to avoid loss--any loss--and it wants to keep open the possibility of getting back whatever is lost. That's the part that's asking this question right now. The rest of your brain needs to kick into high gear and get you out of a no-win situation. What if she dumped this guy? This still isn't someone capable of doing the work that it takes to make a relationship work for both sides. Enjoy Florida--I hear it's a nice place.
2006-08-13 11:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by Pepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is proble using the other guy to try and get over u he proble is jus rebound an thinks since she broke up wit u u wont want her back an doesnt want u to move because she made a mistake by breaking up wit u an wont no what to do if u move... she might like this guy she is seeing but it is nothing serious or she wouldnt keep callin you... an the only reason she is with this other guy proble is because u keep tell her u guys dont have a future together but she doesnt want to acepct that.. sorry might be confusing but in the end do what makes u happy and fallow ur heart
2006-08-13 18:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by my heart belongs to a sailor! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's trying to keep you as a back-up plan. Maybe she says she doesn't want to be your girlfriend now, but she might change her mind later on. Move to FL if you want to, and don't worry about hurting her, she needs to move on, and she will. And lessen the contact with her to little or none. Not talking to exes saves lots of problems in the future.
2006-08-13 18:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by lilkitkat80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind her that its her lost not yours. she broke up with u and not the other way around. u shouldnt let her keep u from living ur own life plus she is dating someone and it seems to me she just wants to b in a relationship with 2 guys.
2006-08-13 19:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by jelly1505 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her.. She broke it off.. Women want to have what they cant... So she thought you would be all heart broken and your not and that is getting to her.. sometimes i really hate being woman cause thats how most of us are.
2006-08-13 18:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by memphismomof1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oops I'm not a guy
2006-08-13 18:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by Maro's mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋