My girlfriend just dropped me like a bad habit. She told me she's sick of me "freeloading". The thing is- I dont have a job and am currently not in school- Im in my early 20s. Im just going through this period where I need to find myself. I also refuse to wear deodorant, so she never slept with me- and one night I smacked her in the face because she wouldn't give me oral sex. I apologized the next day for doing it, and she forgave me. But since I dont have a job and live with Mom, she pays for all of our meals and movies. And I prefer going out on my double-bike (Its a 1977 classic) where I pedal and she sits behind me. But she says its embrasses her, but I cant help it I dont have a drivers license. I like riding the bike with my pants half way off and my crack showing lol I think its funny! Anyways she dumped me- and I dont think thats fair. Yeah I dont have any money or a place of my own or a car, but come on. Isnt love all that really counts? She was a gold-digger imo.
2006-08-13 11:07:59 · 19 answers · asked by big boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow- you really have a 1977 classic double bike? Can I be your new gf- that is if you don't mind I have a hubby and 10 kids! You and the kids would get along great...I think you are on the same level as my oldest son...he's 10 yrs old! You could ride your bike over and hang out with the kids- they would think your bike is really kool too!!!! call me!!!!
2006-08-14 16:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by sammy22005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude... Are you kidding me?!
If you don't have a job, are not in school, are not wearing deodorant, have no physical relationship, smacked her in the face once, are living with your mom, having her pay for the all the dinner and movies, don't seem to care about her feelings,and don't have a driver's license to take you guys places -- what on earth was she getting out of you?
She was digging for gold in an empty bucket.
I'm really hoping you're just trolling.
If not, well, you WERE the freeloader; and if you want a gf, you need to get your stuff together here. No girl in her right mind would stick around.
2006-08-13 11:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jennywocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a girl wants and needs is a man that has his act together. You,my friend are not ready. you're still a boy.Go back to school,tech or college,get a trade.Love has actions that are purpose driven for the good of the relationship,that consistant in caring about what is best. The best relationship is one that starts as friends.She is not a gold digger but one who is looking for a guy who is looking to the future,has accountability for his actions and wise.Get on with your life with a clearer view of what u want.
2006-08-13 11:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by Trish-n-Tn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a freeloader and if you don't like that word maybe you would rather be called a user or maybe a bum or a looser get the message yet? grow up and get a job if you smacked me you would be unable to get a job because they would be carrying you out on a stretcher you are a low life and she needs to kick you to the curb asap. perhaps you need to spend some time in jail and see how you like being smacked around because you refuse to have sex with big bubba your cell mate.
2006-08-13 11:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by mama bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see thats what is wrong with ppl who need to find them self, bc u can do that with a job, unless u plan on livin off the land in a tent in the woods. and no one should go around smelling, and it is never acceptable to slap a lady, she has higher standers for what she wants in life and i dont think its fair for u to want her to settle for a deadbeat. women like men who can take care of themselves and take them out, why should she have to pay for u, she didnt give birth to u, ur suppose to be a man so get a job and clean ur self up then maybe she will take u back, u should respect ur self enough at ur age to care about what u look n smell like and care if u have money to take care of urself.
2006-08-13 11:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 pts
2006-08-13 11:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be happy that the relationship lasted this long
dude get a job or somethin at least
and no one wants to see ur a** crack
my god ur pathetic
find urself soon or ur goin to be really lonely for the rest of ur life
2006-08-13 11:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by tb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz ur a fuckn freeloader dumbass.u need help,anyone that hits a woman isnt a real man anyways.
2006-08-13 11:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by Cyanide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a free loader. Get a life. If you do ever find yourself, you probably won't be able to stand the stink.
2006-08-13 11:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a ******* loser get a life.you can find yourself with a job.i would never be with man without a job.dont you think everyone needs to fin themselves but that dont pay the bills
2006-08-13 11:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋