heres the situation me and this guy have been talking for 4 months he says im the only one for him and he's all mine and is such a sweetheart and always knows what to say to make my day better then all of a sudden last weeks tells me hes met a girl can we just be friends... he said i wasnt planning this it just happened... what is wrong with me i mean all these guys tell me how pretty cute or hot i am but i cant even get a b/f whats the deal with that???
2006-08-13 10:58:00 · 17 answers · asked by hottie#1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand I've had this happen to me too! There is nothing wrong with you, you just haven't met the right guy yet. Usually, when you're looking for a bf, it's hard to find one, but when you're not looking, there he is!
2006-08-13 11:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by lil_lemon_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about action, not words. I would encourage you to be more assertive in your relationships. Take a more hands on approach with your boyfriends. That way you won't get strung along like you seemingly did with this guy. You'll know a lot sooner if they "really" like you, or if there just leading you on. You've got a world full of female competition, so you need to find a guy you really like, and totally go after him in everyway.
2006-08-13 18:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you think you need a bf. Just because you are cute doesn't mean you need a bf. Also, guys will tell you anything to make you smile. Focus on yourself, then the right person will come along
2006-08-13 18:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what a let down well if you say you are hot then this guy wasn't meant for you but i think you need to give up on relationship for a while i been single for about 4 years know and one day i well find the right one for me it just when you less except it to happen then Mr right well appear
2006-08-13 18:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not you girl.......i take it you got it going on! If your not giving it up to them then they will find someone else, I'm not saying your not but that is whats going on! And if your not, good for you. Your the better person out of it anyways!! Then at else you know what kind of guys they are and you didn't waste your time!!
2006-08-13 18:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just looking for you to go with him to show off, guys don't dive in that deep in 4 months in took me a year to finally get all that from this guy.
2006-08-13 18:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kayln M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know but if you would like to talk to me a bit I will be as honest as I can and maybe you can find out.
2006-08-13 18:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not you that is the problem maybe they are to nervous to even know how to take the next step with you. good luck though if all else fails remember i love you
2006-08-13 18:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem isnt with u hun.i noe it sux but jst wait,ull get a real man one of these days
2006-08-13 18:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by Cyanide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is lust that matters in such situations. only sexual pleasures. if you interested, proceed with safe sex practises and friendship with benefits. if not, leave him and forget. good.
2006-08-13 18:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋