We´ve built a very good relationship with a lot of potential but it has only been two months. In general I like the way she dresses but...She has this really flashy big belt that she wears often and I really hate it. Can I tell her that I don´t like it? How? Is it too soon to get into stuff like that?
2006-08-13 10:33:39 · 11 answers · asked by Randy0606 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her
2006-08-13 10:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of telling her you hate her current belt why don't you try to go find a really cute one that you think she'd like and give it to her as a present. Tell her that you've noticed she likes using belts as accessories and you saw one that you thought she'd like. She'll probably think you are really sweet for thinking about her and even if she doesn't stop wearing her ugly belt all of the time, you can at least split up the time with a belt you like as well.
2006-08-13 17:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Randy, hello. The belt wow big and flashy! But heres what I would do is go shopping with or without her and buy her some more belts. Belts that you feel would compliment her shape. I am guessing that if she wears it often that means she doesnt have a bigger selection. Making her selection bigger means she wont choose that one as often. Let me know if it works ;)
2006-08-13 17:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by eyeofthedove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not bf/gf, then yes, it may be soon! Actually, all you have to do is make one comment, like, "gee, you must really like that belt"!! Thats about it.... It will open a conversation about it, joking or whatever! She'll think about wearing it so much.... lol, now Im curious of the out come!!
2006-08-13 17:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you really hate it you have to let her know. She probably would like to know too. Just come right out and say you dont like it. Choose the right time though. Dont wait until she's all dressed to go out or is already out wearing it to make the comment.
2006-08-13 17:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definately want to be told because when your 1st going out you want to impress who your with ya know...so just do something nice like buy her one that you do like and give it to her as a gift that might be easier for you then saying hey you belt in really ugly lol
2006-08-13 17:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by lonely heart club 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant without really hurting her feelings. You could go shopping and say hey honey what do you think of this belt? HOlding it up to her old one....she will say what you dont like this one? Then you will say..Honestly? she will say yes and then you say how you feel.
2006-08-13 17:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is too soon to get into things like that if my bf tell me he dont like something that i wear i would break it off with him because i hate it when guys judge the things i wear
2006-08-13 17:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "I don't really like your flashy belt."
2006-08-13 17:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say you dont like what shes wearing
2006-08-13 17:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋