why do guys say they love you and you're the only one that can turn them on and then when you're sitting somewhere (car, bar, etc..) they look at other girls??? And whats worse, sometimes they make it so damn obvious that they are looking they stick their heads out the window and follow them..
WHY do they do this??
2006-08-13 10:28:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you cant hate on guys for doing that persay...i mean of course he should be looking at you...but in recent scientific studies it showed that a very high percentage of women start to do the same thing when on (or right be4) their period. Because they are the most aroused and ready to have a child at that time of month, so their brain sends signals that its time to find the best male to mate with (your subconsious, its instinct) and most of the time if your at a bar or something, that guy isnt your bf/husband....so the study showed that women do the same thing at that time of month (check out other guys) its instinct....but there is a line that can be crossed...he shouldnt be looking consiously...if he said "omg im sorry i didnt notice" once in a while when it happened maybe that would be better. sticking your head out the window and stuff that obvious is just a pig of a immature guy
2006-08-13 10:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All guys are going to look. There is nothing you can do about it and you better just get used to it. But if he is making it that obvious, like sticking their head out of the car, they are being totally disrespectful to you and you should not date guys that do that. Guys who do that are usually very arrogant and selfish guys who wouldn't think twice about cheating on you. If a guy really likes a girl he wouldn't do such disrespectful things. Looking is one thing, even a guy that totally loves you will look, he's just human but if he's being rude about it that is your signal that this guy is not a keeper.
2006-08-13 17:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men have 2 heads. One holds the brains, and the other one doesn't care about brains and over rides everything that the first one thought of.... So, in the end. Men say what you want to hear and the head in their pants tell them what they want to hear.... You would thing that it was a win win, but it isn't, they just make it too obvious sometimes.
2006-08-13 17:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well for starters if a guy(your boyfriend) is sticking his head out the window, right in front of you,then 1.he has no respect of you.
2.you should end it with him because if he does this in front of you then imagine what he does when your not around.
but at the same time everyone looks......you cant say that you never looked at another guy.its really the fact that one shouldn't
dwell on the thought that you would do this and that to that person.
i hope that helps with your ?
2006-08-13 17:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by goldo12777 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi....Guys are in capable to stick to just one woman it's in their genes.And that's a fact.You will learn this as you get older.There are devoted men who love their wives but the husbands still look which is o.k.They both feel secure enough not to let it bother them.They know where their love lies.This is all facts.I'm not sure what books carry these fact but it's true.The thing is you and it's all you ,you have to be secure within yourself first if your not it's going to bother you no matter what guy you see.Hope this helps.They are incapable it's not in their genes.they come buy it naturally Bonbon
2006-08-13 17:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a guy and let me tell you it is rough out there, LOL, I look but I am not obvious about it. Some guys need to be told, some don't care. Good luck.
2006-08-13 19:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEN LOVE BYTCHEZ ;men are h0rny and consider themselves inocent until proven guilty. men swear "THEY GOT GAME" N like 2 sho off n shyt so thatz another reason.they ususally do this cuz dei dont appreciate what they have wit them and figure no matta wut they do u gonn put up w/ it...in other werds THEY TAKE US 4 GRANTED..but once they loose it they REACT..and sometimes is too late. all men go for the physical at first but if u gots to keep up wit da personality n da attitude..don't stress ova men if they giv u a hard time b a bytch n ignore them..then theyll want u back..!!
2006-08-13 17:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by MillZ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Almost every man no matter how in love with you they are may wonder what is out there.Its like what Ron White says on Blue Collar Comedy Tour "Youve seen one naked, you wanna see the rest of them" just dont worry about it unless you suspect him of cheating
2006-08-13 17:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by Terry C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One reason. They are looking for their next victim. Don't be his victim anymore, and find someone to respect you. Guys will always have the urge to look, but when they truly love and respect you, it won't be so painfully obvious to you. Put yourself first, find a hero and lose the zero.
2006-08-13 17:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by Caroline M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To answer this question, refer to Aescop's Fable...
The Scorpion and the Frog
A scorpion and a frog meet on the bank of a stream and the scorpion asks the frog to carry him across on its back. The frog asks, "How do I know you won't sting me?" The scorpion says, "Because if I do, I will die too."
The frog is satisfied, and they set out, but in midstream, the scorpion stings the frog. The frog feels the onset of paralysis and starts to sink, knowing they both will drown, but has just enough time to gasp "Why?"
Replies the scorpion: "Because it's my nature..."
2006-08-13 17:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋