This is in response to another question I just answered. Basically, I'm saddened when people see sex as solely something for marriage. YES, I'm saddened at that because it's not in our nature to save it for marriage and one person only. Not that we won't settle down one day.. but sexuality is a fun/spiritual thing that I feel we need to explore in order to have a healthy appreciation for it (and not wonder "what other people are like" later on). Not this saving for marriage crap (I'm married so I have a right to say this) I'm SO thankful I got to experience sexual relationships with more than one person
I think people do need to be more responsible when it comes to sex, though. Using the right kind of birth control, your chances are slim to none to get pregnant (example.. on the pill AND using a condom) Absitinence is only seen as good to those who let religious dogma get tied up in their reasoning or for those who are not qeducated on the proper use of birth control/protection.
2006-08-13 10:24:24 · 11 answers · asked by spike_is_my_evil_vampire 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree entirely. Sex is a natural activity and can be very enjoyable. I found this out by having various sexual relationships. Although if somebody wants to save it for somebody special then thats up to them but don't come crying when you wonder what you're missing and don't expect any sympathy if your sex life is poor.
2006-08-13 10:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Bob-bob 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I don't get, as a guy, is why it is expected, in fact it is wonderful, if a guy has a lot of sex as soon as he is able. But a girl is considered a s lut if she does a tenth as much. It doesn't make any sense. I do not understand how something as wonderful as sex has become such a God-awful burden for the human race. The fantasy is that a man and a woman will go their whole lives without a single sexual experience of any kind until their wedding night and then everything will come naturally. What total nonsense. People should play safe, but they should play.
2006-08-13 10:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by jxt299 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your scientifcally wrong, the brain and the chemicals in it are made for sex with one person, or at least such a intimate relationship with one person. When you have sex it sends a chemical to your brain that makes you have feelings for that person, but when you really dont, it confuses your brain. And after doing that a lot and confusing your brain, THEN you want to settle down, your brain doesnt know how to do that...hence why America's divorce rate is 50% of all marriages. Get your facts right, and dont judge other people for having their own morals....they can live having no sex all their life or having 10000 partners, you have no right to judge. Mind your own businuess
2006-08-13 10:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree to a point. Many partners just doesn't do it for all people. But one thing I do feel strongly about is even if you intend to save yourself for marriage, you should "test out the goods" with your fiance before getting married. Sex is important and it's alot easier to settle compatability issues in the bedroom if you aren't already legally bound to someone.
2006-08-13 10:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetheart I do agree.. Sex is WOW .. I have it all the time and I'm 65.. BUT BUT Why do you say that you should have sex before your married?? I've only known one girl in my life and thats this lady here with me right now (MY WIFE).. Been married 45 years now and really enjoy sex, so were normal??Went with her from 7th grade on and we got married in collage and sweetheart I dont think its hurt us any, could be wrong but dont want to find out..Your friend from Tennessee...ROB
2006-08-13 10:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont. Nature did not design humans to have more than one partner (remember aids?). Time has proved that single partner bound people are emotionally more stable and retain their sensitive side.
2006-08-13 10:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it,s a matter of opinion that can never be excepted by everyone. ask yourself what am i going to feel like about this afterward. what is it,s long term efects on both me and my partner? think it over with your head and not your hormones and you must remember if you do then you must tell your prospective spouse you already have ben intimate with someone else before you tie the knot with them. if you confess it will help a lot with your honesty issue, and honesty is critical to a long happy relationship
2006-08-13 10:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by houdini 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no.people really think that? what about the people that wait till theyre married??idk but those ppl need a life
2006-08-13 10:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Cyanide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree.
2006-08-13 10:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i disagree,im still a virgin and im saving myself for my man!
2006-08-13 10:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sus-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋