we've been going out for 2 years, and I give her oral sex almost every time we swank, but she hasn't given me any for months, she says it makes her feel dirty. She said she doesn't like the taste so I got some very tasty flavored ones but she doesn't like the idea. I dont want to get mad and say that it's unfair because its so trivial but what can I do to get her interested?
2006-08-13 10:16:29 · 30 answers · asked by Davers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, stop mentioning it to her. The more you pressure her or make her feel bad about it the more she will not want to do it.
Instead of the usual you doing her and then having sex.... play for a while, not in the bedroom and get kinky with it. Just play with eachother's bodies and experiment. Maybe get out some honey, or ice cubes something that may lead into that WOODY area! Don't sweat it and she'll probably come around.
2006-08-13 10:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women don't like to do it (I don't, I hate giving a guy oral sex!!!) But don't keep pushing she might leave. The simple way to handle it say I'm not going to give you oral sex (or any type of sex) and follow thourgh until she agrees to give you some cos' it's only fair!!
2006-08-13 10:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by Cadence M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but oral sex is sex. She's already done way more than should be done between two people who aren't married to each other.
2016-03-16 21:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her it's only fair! but u know, in a nice way lol. I mean gez, she's not supposed to do that so she'll feel good sexually nessesarily, but for U, to make u feel good. Its one of those lil things u do not 4 urself but 4 some one u love or care about...and im only sayin this b/c u go down on her (not saying every girl should do this, just saying people like being treated fairly!!!)
2006-08-13 10:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Diverse Insanity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A more fitting question may be.... how can you convince your girlfriend to give me oral sex?????
2006-08-13 10:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by lowrider 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you really cared about her you wouldn't want to make her do something she doesn't find pleasurable. Yeah, I know guys love it, but you're right, if she's important to you, it's trivial.
2006-08-13 10:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by telaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have this problem too,but i managed to solve it.show you love to you girl friend and show her she is very important for you and and after when she see you do anything for her and love her she will be convinced automatically to do everything for you viceversa.after you show her,tell her i really need sucking and for the sake of me do it ,not for the sake of sex and penis.thx
2006-08-13 10:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by negar shirazi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time im a girl 2 so i understand her if u don't force her she'll feel less insecure i meen is hard to do somethin when u don't like it plus someone is presurin u
2006-08-13 10:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT PRESSURIZE HER. IF UR REALLY THAT DESPERATE THAN FIND A NEW CHICK.
IF SHE DONT LIKE IT, THEN U CANT HAVE IT. EITHER DUMP HER OR GIVE HER TIME.
INSTEAD OF JUST ASKING FOR IT, BE MORE ROMANTIC, MAKE HER FEEL HORNY, AND IF IT STILL DONT WORK, GET HER DRUNK.
OR
WAIT TILL SHE FALL ASLEEP AND THEN JUST DROP IT IN.
THEN THE NEXT DAY, DUMP HER.
LOL
IF U REALLY DO THAT, TELL ME.
2006-08-13 10:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oral sex is making out so grow up learn it urself god
2006-08-13 10:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋