2006-08-13 09:43:32 · 27 answers · asked by angelina_mcardle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You shouldn't be "worried." You should be talking with him about all the important stuff that he needs to know if he is exploring this actively.
2006-08-13 09:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by jurydoc 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You should sit down and have a talk with your ten year old and tell the appropriate time for that kind of kissing. Have you talked about the birds and the bees yet? If not this might be the right time. At ten years old that kind of kissing is too far.
2006-08-13 09:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by wandito 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if it was a peck on the cheek or lips no, it was experimental, if it was a long mouth closed kiss, I would be a little worried, if it had the tongue involved I would be worried, but think about your son and his "girlfriend", if he really likes her maybe lay low for awhile, maybe she pushed it on him, is this girl nice and considerate, is she a clingy kind of person, or is she a good girl gone bad. Has your son been acting differently since the kiss? Is this girl someone you had never met before? Or was she one of his really good friends? What does he usually watch on TV, anything sexual can disrupt his everyday life, or is he watching Disney channel/ Nickelodeon, if so he might have seen some of those on screen kisses, if he is interested in kissing don't be worried, most ten yr. old's are, my 8 year old sis is, but if they actually do kiss I would not let her in his room, but maybe have her over for dinner sometime, don't be talking about the kiss they shared, and don't be stressed either, kids can sense it, maybe let them play in the backyard, if you have one, maybe if you have a video game console have it out in the living room for them to play, if he really likes her and she likes him don't ruin it, just be nice and talk to your son about it! I hope this helps! :) Sydney Koslan
2006-08-13 10:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, he is WAY too young to be kissing. He is still a child, not even a teen, or pre-teen for that matter. You should have a talk with him that it's okay to like a girl, but that at his age holding hands and hanging out together should be all that happens. He should also be monitored when with the girl - no "alone" dates.
2006-08-13 09:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO- i have an eight year old boy and although i would be concerned, I would not worry to much just have a talk with him and keep an eye on him. Kids today growing up to fast as each generation moves on. all we can do as parents is keep them informed and educated and be there for support when it all goes wrong.
If you worry to much your child will notice and think it was wrong to kiss and that could make it even worse
good luk
2006-08-13 09:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by X2 epsilon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't be too worried,but I would let him know what kissing goes to and that he reall ydoesn'tn need to go around smooching every girl in sight. Now if this girl and him have been together for a really long time i would let that onw slip just once.
2006-08-13 09:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Heather B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Time for a parent -child talk about the birds and the bees.
You should be ready with some kind of resource materials as kids these days are precocious-Yours is DEFINITELY!
Good Luck.
2006-08-13 09:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by angieasee64 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just sit down and calmy discuss it with your child. See what prompted them to try it and open the line of communication. I wouldn't necessarily over concern yourself with it... I tried heavy kissing/petting when I was 12 and that was 15 years ago... kids are learning younger and younger these days.
2006-08-13 09:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by seattlecutiepie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should...
IT IS NOT NORMAL FOR LITTLE GIRLS TO PRACTICE ON OTHER LITTLE GIRLS...
You need to take the time and talk to him/her to see what he/she's feeling. Be there for hi/her most importantly.
hard subject. God bless!
I had my first boyfriend when I was 11 years old and he ended becoming my husband (he was 17 at the time). RARE SITUATION! But consider that at this stage they are thinking about it. I also lost my viriginity at 11 so be very careful with her. And to think I am giving birth to a little girl on Wednesday.
:)
2006-08-13 09:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by Wouldn't u like to know 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd sit down and talk with him about kissing, sex, etc. I would not approve of him kissing (open mouth) with a girl at that age. A peck on the cheek is different.
2006-08-13 09:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-13 09:46:50 · answer #11 · answered by aggravatingprick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋