I don't know why . The father won't have anything to do with them . But she has dated one to old , one to young and a loser . What is wrong with her ?
2006-08-13 09:36:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She may be depressed or may be dating someone else and is just doing other things. My son is 26 and he used to be here a lot till his 2 daughters were born and now he is always fishing and hunting to get some free time to himself. Give her a call and tell her you miss her and see if she wants to stop by for a chat. She may feel you might be becoming distant too :) She just hasn't found the right guy yet and now a days so many men are out to see what the lady can do for them and that's it. She is having a rough time and just may need to learn on her own that life can stink even after divorce.Sorry to hear this. Good Luck:)
2006-08-13 09:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by ₦âħí»€G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she is going through hell right now. I am wondering if she is dating to find a "father" figure too quickly?
Anyway, did you like her husband? Are you the type that says ,"I told you so?" There must be a reason on why she does not want to see you. Maybe she feels that you may think it was her fault that he's left. Maybe you had high hopes for the both of them. Maybe you will remind her that she has children to take care of on her own. Maybe she wants to get through this battle herself, without interference.
What is wrong with her might also stem from what may be wrong with YOU.
Think about it and give her a call or a visit. If she wants to do things for herself, let her be by herself. Do not push her.
2006-08-13 16:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to ask these questions to your daughter?
If there is something wrong with her - you need to ask yourself that question.
But if your "closeness" has included real openness I think you can ask her what's it all about.
But don't be judgemental. You are when you say that 1 was tt old, 1 was too young, and 1 was a loser. By saying that you have already stated that you are judgemental and that you know what is best.
So don't telle her how to lead her life. Ask, listen with an open mind and heart.
By the way what has your daughter learnt from your acts?? Do you know how to get along through married life?? What lessons has she learnt from you???
2006-08-13 16:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by KirstenP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may nothing wrong with her. Perhaps you may be criticizing everything she does and she's sick of hearing it? Just because she's divorced and dating doesn't mean every guy she goes out with is a potential husband, nor is it always possible to tell what kind of person someone is until you spend some time with them. She may just enjoy having some pleasurable male company instead of what's obviously been unpleasurable since she divorced him. If she's like me, she also now has to take care of additional details, like vehicle, home, and yard upkeep and maintenace, so spare time is even less than it used to be. Try to be more understanding and less critical!
2006-08-13 16:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by telaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right your daughter is going thru alot and probably is still in love with her ex and until she feels that she is back in control she is going to be this way. She needs you as a friend more than a mother now and I would like for you to call her and leave a message and let her know that you are there for her and the kids. Also tell her that you love her. And please don't judge the people that she is dating and the things she's doing just pray for her and it will get better and your relationship will be back to normal.
2006-08-13 17:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Moody1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might blame you for marital problem she had with her man. Which is why you guys arent close anymore and u dont see the grandchildren much.
As for her poor dating picks, the good thing is that she is dating, as long as she dates for long periods of time its good. Not date one day and boyfriend the next.
Best of luck to you.
2006-08-13 16:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by jacel0731 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just needs comfort but dosent know were to look for it so she has to try differnent things and the father is at law to hellp with the children that means like he should help pay for food school and even take turns with them
2006-08-13 16:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by brazycan2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about why you feel the lost of closeness (maybe she is so preoccupied she doesn't realize it).
As far as dating -- she has to live her life, but you don't have to approve of it. Unfortunately, it's the kids who see the men in/out of her life w/out stability.
2006-08-13 16:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by Starr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should "hook up" with the father, if he's hot, then the two of you could see the grandchildren together...... that would be sweeeeeet
2006-08-13 16:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by lowrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard time for her. I can tell she wants to start a new relationship. Call her email her try to keep in contact nad be very understanding.
2006-08-13 16:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋