A few months before i started dating my boyfriend i believe i met my soulmate, as we clicked as soon as we layed eyes on eachother. I was besotted with him for a long time without telling him, but i kind of thought he felt the same anyway without anything having to be said. I started dating my boyfriend, and he loves me so much and our lives and friends are kind of built around eachother, although i still miss 'him', and its hard because he's around alot. So heres my question: If you have a boyfriend that is completely in love with you and cares for you, should you still in that situation choose your soulmate, or just be glad that he's in your life?
2006-08-13 09:30:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My son's father & I were together 11 years & we split. I met a great guy & i believe he was sent to me for a reason. I still live with my son's father because we have to save up to go on our own. My new guy understands. I believe the new guy is IT. Even though my ex wanted to try again, I don't want to leave the new guy. I am just letting my heart lead me.
2006-08-13 09:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I must tell you that I think it's a wonderful choice to use the word "besotted" to describe how you feel about your soulmate. I can imagine the tugs that pull on your heartstrings when you see him.
However, it seems that the more important question here is what is he doing about having met you ? Has he approached you in any form or fashion?
I am not certain that finding a love and finding a soulmate come in the same package. Oftentimes when you perceive a person who may be your soulmate~ you aren't always his...
2006-08-13 16:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you met your soulmate, then why did you date your bf?
as for your question, no, you don't use someone. there is no soulmate, just someone that's more compatible with you and there are plenty of guys better than your bf. that doesn't mean you can ditch your bf. would you like it if your bf ditch you for some hotter chick? or if your "soulmate" left for his soulmate? that is the same as a guy just using you for sex then move on to someone else.
note, use more puncutation
2006-08-13 16:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by erk m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should leave yoru boyfriend and give your "soulmate" a try. If you want something else then you just have to go after it. Its better to do that then to live a lie and let your boyfriend live a lie.
2006-08-13 16:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by jacel0731 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you truly feel that he is your "soulmate" you should pursue that
first or you will always be wondering if your life is going in the right direction.
2006-08-13 16:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by maryoke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose the soulmate...do you really want to be with someone who isn't?
2006-08-13 16:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by Brittni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not act on it.
Just be glad you have soulmate.
Friendship is a great thing
2006-08-13 16:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no such thing as a "soul mate". that's just something somebody said one time and somebody liked it, then they told all of their friends, then they told all of their friends, and so on.
2006-08-13 16:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try what with them??
2006-08-13 16:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋