I have had my heart broken a couple of times...I can't seem to find the right person...Women are much more open, honest and genuine!
2006-08-13 09:24:14 · 35 answers · asked by tee_hee_ssh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust your heart. If he's true, and gentle and wants to be with you, you'll know.
2006-08-13 09:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is no miracle way! But I'd say there are 3 assholes to 1 nice guy in the world, play the numbers game try make lots of new male friends. you'll find someone special before long. I totally disagree that women are more open, honest and genuine than guys, there are assholes in both camps.
2006-08-13 09:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by prof_h_farnsworth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay interest. Yellow flag right here. a pair of possibilities: a million) he's a young operator who makes use of flattery to get around a woman and get "what he needs". He could be hoping to sweep you off your ft and take you factors you will incredibly no longer circulate. He might additionally be an abuser, bodily or emotionally. 2) he's insecure and he's making use of the extensive compliments to make confident he won't lose you. This, of direction, might tempt you to abuse him. 3) he's truthfully wowed with you. in spite of the incontrovertible fact that, as he gets to understand you over the years, he will see your flaws, too. are you able to settle for each different warts and all, or now no longer? advice: circulate incredibly slowly. do no longer rush into marriage, intercourse, living at the same time, a visit jointly, or some component that places you at his mercy. Watch how he treats his friends and your friends. greater often than not watch how he treats his mom and sister. that's how he will finally end up treating you.
2016-12-11 08:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult, and I'd have to say that there is no sure fire way.
Depends how determined you are to find them.
I've had a few bad ones too. That's because I walk in with complete trust. I treat every one like the first. With complete openness.
It's a dangerous thing because you can get really hurt by it, but I continue to do it because I know it's the only way I'll find it.
Life is not fair at most times, but if you really want something you will go through hot coals to get it.
2006-08-13 09:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by JeffE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Importantly, the guy who really has alot of care and feeling for you, will go at YOUR pace, and will always be there for you....
Suppose it really depends what you want out of a relationship.
Guys are naturally more defensive, and try to keep that "macho" image by not revealing their true inner feelings so often.
Although with time they will reveal more, therefore hold your guard for longer so you don't get hurt, until you begin to understand how they really feel for you....
...You are unique, you are beautiful, there will never be another tee_hee_ssh, it's their loss at the end of the day, and you WILL find better. All the best.
2006-08-13 22:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by GuessWho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they are not it just the guys you date makes you think that. Most women don't want a man that is honest cause like most people we say we want people to tell the truth but when they do we hate them.. Iknow I told the truth to someone and now they hate me. the truth my feeling toward that person. if your heart has been broken only a couple times be grateful.
2006-08-13 09:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move a lot of earth before you find a diamond honey.
Keep looking (and getting a broken heart is part of the deal) and you will find your soulmate. Maybe in the most unlikely of places but it will happen
xx
2006-08-13 09:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mozzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd just have to focus on his actions and words. There's alot of guys out there who are genuine I can speak for myself, but there aren't many women who are genuine so consider yourself a catch!
2006-08-13 09:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by mike! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always hard to tell if somebody is genuine, but what I would say is to try and be cautious initially and gradually open up. You will find the real person inside him, and tehn you can tell if he is genuine.
2006-08-13 23:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into their eyes and ask them. If they quickly look down and to the left before looking you back in the eyes they are lying 95% of the time. If they look up and to the left, up to the right, down to the right, they are searching for an answer. If they search too long, that would be something to be concerned about as well.
2006-08-13 09:32:31 · answer #10 · answered by Alex B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that heart break feeling. I think the key is to take things slowly and get to know the person first, then in time you'll know if he and you are right for each other.
2006-08-13 10:17:57 · answer #11 · answered by Mr looking for answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋