i love my girlfriend and she cheatted on me twice i forgave her i even asked her to leave her family for me when shes 18 but dudes like allways come on too her and she is argueing with me saying she wont cheat again and she loves me and she wants me to trusts her and i do trust her like 76 percent i think this dude likes her and she wants to still talk to him and other dudes that like her she said i can too i dont want to and i want her not to talk to dudes that like her im i in the wrong or her
2006-08-13 09:18:15 · 8 answers · asked by ermaarthur@sbcglobal.net 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she cheated on you twice why are you still with her?
you cant have a relationship without honesty.
2006-08-13 09:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by vanessa w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brother, once they cheat on you they always will no matter how much you love them. This girl is obsessed with you or just to **** around with you. A girl that really loves you will never cheat on you even when she is a little bit drank or around many cute guys. Best advice, leave her right now before she hurts you more later on. You will have to grab your huevos strong and you SHOULD BE HAPPY THAT YOU FOUND OUT WHAT KIND OF GIRL YOU WERE GOING OUT with. IT WILL BE WORSE IF YOU WERE TO FIND OUT AFTER YOU MARRIED HER AND GOT KIDS. Forget about her and find somebody that will really respect you. I am telling you this because i have been on your shoes before.
2006-08-13 16:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by california kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read the first line and made up my mind then read the second line and was confirmed. You need to get with her and let her know that she can only have sex with other guys if the guy brings a female for you to have sex with at the same time. Or you just enjoy her going out with other guys or can go on your way because she is not ready to settle down with one man.
There are only three ways about it.
1 Join her and be swingers
2 Just live with it.
3 Go on your way.
Make up your mind.
2006-08-13 16:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya'll are both in the wrong you telling her to leave her family for you and she cheated on you twice .....damn......it is still right for girls to talk to dudes that like us just as long as she don't cheat on you again with one
2006-08-13 16:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all i have the same relation but my bf said i cheated on him but i didnt so he didnt trust me in the begining but in your relation u are for sure she cheated on u so what the **** are u still with her u can never trust her again she did it and she can do it again but make sure she cheated on u the first 2 times
2006-08-13 16:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by lil_babygirl_210 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u are not wrong..dude listen she cheated on you twice..u have every rite to be concerned......now it depends on if she should talk to them..yes she has every rite to talk to other guys..but if she's starts to flirt..thats where u draw the line...cuz if u like her..u want her to have guy friends.....but u dont want her to have any other boyfriends you dont know about..make sense?/ hope i helped
2006-08-13 16:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by how many 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think she shouldn't talk to them cz even if you trusted her , you can't trust the guys so she mustn't talk and you're also saying that she cheated twice so maybe she'll cheat again.
2006-08-13 16:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with her best friend. That should throw a spanner in the works. ha.
2006-08-13 16:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by getoffscottfree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋