Could you guys tell me everything i need to know about it. I figure something out and then i know its not the end that there is more to it and i want to learn everything about it. I promise i wont put it to use until im married. I just, we dont have a health class at our school, and sometimes i wish we did.
2006-08-13 09:16:08 · 9 answers · asked by Kaylee K 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Well, I would be happy to answer any questions you have about sex, assuming you don't feel like you can ask your own mother.
To start off with, you first time will probably hurt like hell and isn't a heck of a lot of fun. There are many books about sex and different ways to do it, but you have lots of time to check those out. The advice I gave my kids, who are now 20 and 17 is that sex is more than just putting a penis into a vagina and that stuff, it is about being ready mentally and emotionally (esp. emotionally) as well as being physically ready for it. All those parts have to be in sync to really have a enjoyable sexual experience. Many boys just want the physical thing but girls typically want the emotional attachment that goes with it. Don't rush into it and don't let anyone pressure you into doing it. You will know when you are ready and in the mean time, get a mirror, take a look at yourself and get comfortable with your own sexuality. Feel free to explore what feels good to you and masterbate whenever you want to. HEHE. Even though some people say they never masterbate, they lie. Everyone does it. I hope this helps you understand sex a little better. : )
2006-08-13 09:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be having this conversation with your mother, not a bunch of strangers online. You cannot trust you will get helpful, accurate information here. If you do not want to talk to her, the best way to get accurate information is to ask a health professional, your doctor or go to the school nurse. You can also look up books on this topic for your age in the book store or library.
2006-08-13 09:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by dkwkbmn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex before marriage is for whores & people who wish to promote stds. When people have sex when they are unmarried, it's like ripping apart flesh. One out of seven condom users will experiance pregnancy within the first 5 years. The only sure way to prevent pregnancy is abstinence. Even with condoms, stds can spread because the condom does not cover all the skin that comes to contact. 14 year olds should not be thinking about sex, you should play with barbie sor GI joes. People who have sex that young is because they have irresponsible parents or are sexually exploited by a filthy person. I knew a girl who had 12 different partners when she was 14 years old, 3 miscarriages at the age of 15. She wasnt happy before, can she be happy now? I doubt it. Sex is not love, it's pure lust. Please go play video games & eat candy. Sex is not for children and if you want to have children someday, I suggest you set a good example for them.
2006-08-13 09:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Otsosi, potom prosi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
consult your parents, getting information about sex from peers is very dangerous because they don't have all, if any, of the facts. no matter what though - always, always, ALWAYS use protection. male or female condoms, birth control pills, diaphragms, they must be used unless you want a child. if you are too nervous go to your parents, go to your school nurse or your doctor, they will be able to answer your questions most accurately.
2006-08-13 09:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Meg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out scarleteen.com, teenwire.com, and plannedparenthood.org for more information.
I think it's awesome that you want to learn more about it. I'm sorry that you don't get sex education at your school.
2006-08-13 09:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by penpallermel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a question for your parents or older adult to answer for you instead of a bunch a strangers.If you feel embarrassed to go to your parents you could write you feelings and questions down for them to read(when your not there) and then maybe they will approach you about it.Or you could talk to you Dr. about it.
2006-08-13 09:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi don't you think 14 is too young, please try to delay your experience till you are actually ready... i think if you want to find out more, you should speak to your school guidance counselor, or your family doctor.... Once again try to delay.
2006-08-13 09:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by Arun M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start asking your mom & dad hun, they are the ones that you should be asking but if they refuse to tell you then come back and we will tell you.
2006-08-13 09:27:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, www.sexinfo101.com is really good 1im 14 too and found it so helpful!! please look at it if you want to learn, hope it helps! xxxxx
2006-08-13 11:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋