i did sex before marriege?

Question

i did sex before my marriage many imes with my boyfriend.we got breakup and now i m getting married to some other guy in few weeks.i fear that he ll come 2 know that i m not a virgin....what should i do so that he does not come to know abou it.....i did sex 4 the last time in jan 2006 n i m getting married in sept....there is a gap of abt 8 mths.....will he come to know abt it or not?????plz gimme few tips....

Answer 1

Honesty is the best policy.

If you confront him now, you can save yourself the hassle of a problem later. It would be a MAJOR screw-up if he found out AFTER you got married to him.

So if your wedding got canceled now, that might not be so bad.

Answer 2

If this is a major issue for you, you may want to consider talking to your fiance about this. It would be very harmful to your marriage to enter into it hiding something from him or lying to him-- imagine how hurt he would be if he found out soon after you married him that you haven't been honest to him about this. If he loves you he will probably forgive you for this.

Personally, i don't have any problems about sex before marriage, but I do think that honesty and trust are necessary for a successful marriage.

Answer 3

Well first off you should tell him because it will come back to bite you is the a$$. A marriage consist of honesty. Also he might be able to tell you are not a virgin cause you might not be as tight as you were. Lies always come out so be honest before it is to late.

Answer 4

Doesn't matter what you try you will never be a virgin again so the best solution is to tell him so that he would not find out on his own and be even more hurt then you telling him yourself. I am sorry but there is no turning back the clock no matter how much you want to

Answer 5

ha ha ha.

Its none of his business what you did before, as long as you are clean (no diseases.) I'd bet good money he has dipped his wick more than once in other wells.

So unless he has a heart to heart ewith you and confesses who he slept with-you don't need to confess anything. Theres no way he can tell unless you tell him. Not everyone bleeds the first time. Just say "ouch" and wince a little when he first goes in.

Answer 6

If you are going to get married then you need to be honest to your soon to be husband and not withhold this information from him. If you are going to keep this from him, then you do not need to be married because that it not right in a marriage. Marriage is about honesty, commitment, loyalty and respect. You either tell him or call off the wedding.

Answer 7

As a man, I would want to know (even though i couldn't tell). If I am ready to commit to you for the rest of my life, Your virginity isn't important, but your faithfulness is, and that includes honesty. Take the other women's advice. If that ends your engagement, then there wasn't commitment anyway.

Answer 8

lol i love questions like these. Since you "did" sex before marriage there's nothing wrong with that lots of people do. By the time you get with this new guy you will be tighter and thus he shouldnt suspect much. Good luck.

Answer 9

Are you serious???? If you know someone well enought to marry them, they should already know if you are a virgin or not.


PS -- The first person has NO IDEA what he/she is talking about. Women don't close up again. People can go years without having sex, and that doesn't make them a virgin again.

Answer 10

Shhhhh. no person in this u . s . has found out what intercourse relatively is yet. once you're making some form of physique touch, you're able to do like Clinton and argue your way out of. If I have been you i'd undertake his presidential coverage for the militia. "do no longer ask, do no longer tell".