my son ig trying to get out of air force-hardship and dependency-good documentation-what are his chances?

Question

we his parents are-disabled and i got woese off emotionally too since he left and his money is gone -so we cant pay bills

Answer 1

I don't know about the Air Force, but my son was not able to get a hardship dismisal when my husbands health hit bottom. We were self employed and that meant shutting the business down. We had also just taken on the raising of our greatgrandchildren (11 mo twins).

I did not want him to even apply for it, but he did out of his sense of family. I was relieved when he did get a temporary hardship and was able to come home for a short time. But we never expected money from him nor would I accept any when he tried to give it.

We were not disabled and did not have the services available that you do.

1. You are disabled?.............. There are programs out there to help with disability. If you are disabled you should be able to draw your disability on social security, you should qualify for medical assistance, housing assistance etc.
Quit pitying yourself and search for the help from someone besides your son.

2. You got worse off emotionally?................Who is the grown up here? Your emotions are a matter of choice. You can chose to be angry,happy etc. If you are suffering from depression.... Get help.... You should be eligilble for medicare or medicaid. Check with your state agency for the aged....etc.......

3. His money is gone and we can't pay the bills......
It is not your son's responsibility to pay your bills. It is a good son who will help out, but you should not expect it.

If I sound like I am being harsh then so be it. Your son needs an opportunity to have a life of his own without the clinginess of his parents.

What would you have honestly done if the situation had been on you when you were young and wanting to get on with your life. Be honest and don't sugarcoat the past.

Based on the selfishness of your question I tend to believe you would have turned your back on your parents. You have come across in this question as a person who focuses only on themselves and not the other person.

I hope I am wrong in my assumptions about you, PLEASE PROVE ME WRONG, for your sake and for your son's sake.

Answer 2

You're disabled and he's paying the bills and his money is all gone so you want him home? Why do you have a computer and Internet service? Why are you spending that boys hard earned money on a luxury? You are a rotten parent.

Answer 3

You have to say that you have emoitional nightmares stuff like that you can not live with out this person in your life and most of it depens on your lawyer and to prove the crap about emotianal nightmares you need to get a letter from the doctor saying thats true.

Answer 4

Wrong section.