im one of those nicer guys that doesnt cheat listens to girls respects them and all that stuff... how do i act like an a$$hole around girls... wut should i do to be that way around girls when i wanna be that way... cuz (stated a question bout this before) girls seem to be attracted more to mean bad a$$hole guys...
2006-08-13 09:14:25 · 11 answers · asked by T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not about acting like an a**, it's about being confident. One thing that bad boys have going for them is confidence (to the point of arrogance, in their cases). If you're even a little bit hesitant, a woman will take that as a sign that you're intimidated by her, and that puts her off. Approach a woman as if you know that she wants you -- that's what jerks do. And if she doesn't, no big deal, someone else will. That attitude is what gets the bad boys what they want. That same confidence (just not to the point of arrogance, please) will also help you, even if you remain your nice, polite self.
2006-08-13 09:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you are trying to attract the wrong type of girls. Do you really want a girl that later on will treat you like crap as well? Girls really only like bad guys for a short time. Find a bad guy, and then track his past relationships. They don't last because a "bad guy" is only a phase for women. Not someone they grow old with. I myself have never been attracted to the "bad guys" I've always cared more about friendship than love, and it's hard being friends with a "bad guy" Like who you are, and only go out with a girl that respects that in you.
2006-08-13 16:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kendra 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, then those girls really want to be in abusive relationships. It isn't about that. It is about not letting people walk all over you. Stand your ground. We like to see we will be protected. We like to have guys with strong personalities. Not push-overs that we will perceive as weak. I know, that seems too simple, but you guys are really easy to figure out. We stay away from the shy, nice guys because you do not meet the first need in Maslow's Theory...SAFETY. Do be assertive...but not to the point that you are a real mean guy.
2006-08-13 16:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not ber that they are @$$holes to the girls, but girls see them as having a lot of confidence. So maybe in your own perspective, these guys look a little too full of themselves, and you equate that w/ being an @$$hole. Ergo, the key is confidence, find your own, and you should be OK.
2006-08-13 16:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, man!
Decent, respectable Ladies are NOT interested in @$$holes. We are, in fact, repulsed by them and find their behaviour disgraceful.
2006-08-13 16:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by girl next door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself.the good looking women will see your a nice guy and maybe tell their fat girlfriends that you're sweet and you'll have all the chubby girls you can handle.leave the rest for me.
2006-08-13 16:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the ones that are Psychologically f*cked up!
2006-08-13 16:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not that were attracted to them.... it's just the hotties are usually the @$$holes
2006-08-13 16:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by encore_theater_rox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doode... those kinda girls are just into those bada$$es are b/c those girls crave for sex.. they let themselves loose.. theres better grls than those.. trust me.. u will find the perfect grl.. and she'll appreciate for who you are . so dont change!! ^.^
2006-08-13 16:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by (<' . '<)MoOomOOoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself....thats how you are... dont try to impersonate other people... like i can be an A$$hole and MEAN to them, and they love, not because of that; because i can make them laught and im very charming... dats wat you need charisma and charming....
2006-08-13 16:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by christopher d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋