My brother has a nasty little game he plays. It basically goes, if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with..as the old 60s song goes. He will stay with a woman just because she is better than nothing, even though she is not what he is really looking for, and live with her, sponge off her, and make her believe he loves her until something better comes along. His ideal woman is very young and very thin. But since he drinks all his money, he likes to move in on stable women that have their own place and can support him. Only the supportive women usually have a few kids, are a little older or wider, than what he really is looking for. He will live with the "supporter" while going out and chasing younger prettier women, hoping to drop the "fatty" if a better woman will take him on. I want to say something to his women so bad sometimes because he plays so many games and uses them so blatently. I feel some loyalty to my bro, but also feel loyal to my gender. should I rat?
2006-08-13 08:44:58 · 6 answers · asked by looloo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
looks like the girls said tell and the guys said don't. I'm going to put this to vote.
2006-08-15 10:48:40 · update #1
No, I would stay out of it. If the women can't see it for themselves--chances are they won't believe you anyway.. Your brother sounds like a real winner...they usually do themselves in.....women with a place of their own, supporting him..should know themselves exactly what they are already doing.
2006-08-13 08:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have one question for you... Would you want a guy doing this to you? Tell the girls, they have a right to know, they shouldn't waste their love for someone who isn't going to give it back in return! Your brother will be your brother forever, he will forgive you. Just remember: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you!
2006-08-13 15:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by jlee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not seeing a problem here, except maybe you need to get with the program and follow your brothers lead. When it comes to life, it's use or be used, plain and simple...
2006-08-13 15:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sean T 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. You should tell your brother to grow up and quit being such a leech.
2006-08-13 15:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone,what goes around comes around,and it appears that he has to learn this.
2006-08-13 15:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by barry_maciel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Yes u absolutly should...
i would want my boyfriends brother to
tell me.....Dude seriously tell her!"
2006-08-13 15:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by loveme4me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋