Why are men so shallow that they just have to have women that are slender. Also the women have to have a great form? I can't help but laugh when I hear a single guy say, " I'm looking for Mrs. Right." When he's saying my Mrs. Right has Blonde hair and blue eyes. So when the picture don't fit, then the opertunity was lost. This is probably why so many marriages never work out.
2006-08-13 08:30:01 · 12 answers · asked by ltnadmpls02 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if a man cant see past outer beauty then hes a loser. yeah i know this is coming from a guy but doesnt mean i cant agree with you. im not gonna say looks dont matter but if a guy bases relationships solely on looks then find a different guy. because hes not worth your time. there ARE guys out there that look past outer beauty its just a matter of finding them. =]
2006-08-13 08:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by james 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are primarily visual and thus there focus is on what is pleasant to look at. Hugh Hefner knew that and built a multi-million dollar business based on that premise. This pre-occupation with visual orientation frees them from having to deal with emotions, feelings, and the inner beauty that woman sometimes exude. For men to get in touch with their feelings they sometimes feel it as if it were a threat to their masculinity when actually it enhances their humanity.
Unfortunately women buy into the beauty myth which tell women how they should look, how much they should weigh. what their color hair should be, and they believe it.
It is good if you can laugh it off, because it is so pervasive...even men but into it!
I think some men are not shallow, maybe shy or maybe they lack the social skills to interact with women. For myself, I am attracted to beautiful women who are intellectually stunning, and fascinating in their points of view. I love listening to them talk. I sometimes believe that they are from the planet Venus.
2006-08-13 08:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No doubt men see outer beauty first, but with time we do enjoy the inner beauty more, that's why we're more apt to get married. Mrs. Right means different things to different people. Some might want an equal partner, some might want something different. But one thing is for sure, outer beauty definitely fades while inner beauty doesn't.
2006-08-13 08:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
UH..Maybe you should not be focused on those guys.
Ask yourself why you would want a shallow man anyways.
All men do not want a blonde hair,blue eyed girl.
You just have to be patient and love yourself.If you never find a man to love you for you then you must be comfortable with that and know that you still have your self respect.NEVER SETTLE.
But on the other side about the weight.
Do you want a big sloppy man that does not take care of himself?
Most people with Xtra weight have low self esteem and men like women with confidence not women who don't want to leave the house because they "look fat".
I used to wear size 20 and now I am a size 8 I have always had dates because I love myself and it shows.I always dressed nice and knew that I was the baddest ***** in the room-even if I wasent and men loved my confidence-good luck......
2006-08-13 08:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by YUMMY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. Women do the same thing. They over look good guys just to chase after Bad Boys. A man can be attractive and treat a woman with respect and love and romance and she will leave him in a minute for some loser that lies to her and then hurts her later. Leaving the woman to regret her decision for leaving the good guy. Happens all the time.
2006-08-13 08:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all of us are like what you say .
i dont judge a person by thier looks
for instance there was a beautiful looking lady i met once but when i got to know her i realised that her peronality was rotten .
its true that the inside that counts but if the outside is also beautifull thats always good =]
Ps : I dont think Really thin women are all that atractive id depends on the person.
2006-08-13 08:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys r jus stupid not all of them are like this welll i take it back they proble are ;) but u have to think would u go out wit someone u werent atleast a lil bit attracted to? but u r right the do look for outer most of the time but they gotta have inner beauty to keep them guys dont like the dumb as-s girls an if they r wit them well u no why... some guys r jerks but the right one is out there
2006-08-13 08:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by my heart belongs to a sailor! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main reson mariges don't work out is becasue there is a 60% cheat rate...
not all guys are like that but from persnal experince guys wnt it all a beautiful girl and a gr8 persnaily and prob is u can't c a girls persnaily u can only c there looks....
and btw some guys odn't like slender chics i can admit i prefear bigger gals (250/300lbs)
so it depends on the guy....
2006-08-13 08:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well..most of them dont really know what they need..because the mrs.right that they think is really not it.. sonner or later they`ll figure it out coz its hard to find outer and inner beauty on one person.
2006-08-13 08:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Superficial people seek superficial qualities, and men today are about as deep as a crack in the sidewalk.
2006-08-13 08:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by Joy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋