my bro and sister-in-law ceep fighitig and i dont know what to do and im thinkuing of what could happen to the babies if they get a devorse what could i do
2006-08-13 08:14:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I understand that it's difficult for you to see people that you care for unhappy. It took me a long time to figure out that, as much as I would like to, I cannot fix everything for everyone. Just make sure they both know you love them.
2006-08-13 08:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dimples 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should go about your own business. If they need your counsel they'll ask but they are the best equipped to deal with their questions and your advice may cause as much harm as good. If they need someone to intercede it should be someone as neutral as possible, a priest or a professional counseler. If you do anything to help suggest one of the other.
2006-08-13 09:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thy need to work out there differences and hope that the babies don't hear them fighting its bad to have to grow up and hear that crap all the time I had to live like that for years and at the age of 15 I ran away from home and I never went back now I'm 45 and I cant stand to be around any one who is trying to start a fight I leave so please stay away from all that its not up to you to get involved God Bless you and yours I'll pray for you
2006-08-13 08:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Libra 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would talk to your brother alone, and tell him how you feel. But on the other hand things could get worse if you interfear. It's good that you care but try to talk to someone 9adult) like your mom or dad first and get there opinoin!
Good Luck!
2006-08-13 08:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by Paul O 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just bro know that you are there for him and if he needs you he can call, other than that there isn't anything you can do. Good luck.
2006-08-13 09:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAY ABOUT IT AND STAY OUT OF IT! THE WORST THING TO DO IS TO TRY TO BE THE PEACE KEEPER.IF SHE WANTS OUT OF THE MARRIAGE OR VICE VERSA THEN YOU CANT HELP THEM. YOU HAVE TO JUST STEP BACK AND LET WHATEVER TAKE ITS COURSE BECAUSE SHE COULD GET MAD AT YOU AND TRY TO KEEP THE KIDS FROM YOU IF ANYTHING DOES HAPPEN!! I HAVE BEEN THRU THIS MYSELF!
2006-08-13 08:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mel G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your heart is in the right place, this is not a great place for the kids, talk to your brother about this.
2006-08-13 08:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
learn how to spell first before getting involved in anybodies business there personal life is way more complicated then spelling
1.Keep
2fighting
3.thinking
4.divorce
2006-08-13 08:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not much, unless you have something major to do with their fighting, stay out of it. If they get a divorce, again there is not much you can do about it. Sorry.
2006-08-13 08:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you dont want to interfere but at the same time you care...if they ask for your help then give it...maybe have your parents suggest counselling or something like that..it also may not be as bad as you think it is
2006-08-13 08:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋