Seriously, you see it all the time on tv. There are alot of companies offering this service. Would it be psycho to do the same if you wanted to give yourself that piece of mind? Yes, I'm considering doing so for piece of mind.
2006-08-13 07:33:37 · 10 answers · asked by mike! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, insane in the membrane
2006-08-13 07:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i don't think it's "insane". If you suspect that your partner is being unfaithful and that you have good reasons to believe that, the only way to be ceratain that your suspicions are right is to verify- and how can you verify?
1. by asking- if u can expect for a honest answer
2. by hiring a private investigator
the second choice is usually the more accurate one!
It doesn't hurt to want to confirm this, except if your partner really wasn't unfaithful and the latter discovered you had spied on him/her...so beware and take all the precautions if you decide to go along with it!
2006-08-13 07:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by LOLMAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's insane IF you have sound reasons based on FACT to suspect your significant other. If you're just lacking trust and are paranoid then I think it could be something that would split up a good relationship. I know I wouldn't want my husband or boyfriend to hire a PI for no reason. If you don't have trust then you have nothing.
2006-08-13 07:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll I think it's kinda sad that your level of distrust in your partner has reached a point where you want to spy on him/her. I do consider it disrespectful to your partner, so I would not do it. Also, I think that spying on your partner will not bring you "peace of mind". I think that instead of spending money spying on her, you and your partner should seek counseling.
:-) Good luck
Marla
2006-08-13 07:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by Marla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not insane,but if the level of trust has broken down to that point, how much of a relationship do you have? And what are you trying to save?
2006-08-13 07:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by consigliere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not insane
but sure annoyin
id hate if my bf did that to me
and hed probably be pissed if i did that to him
especially if we both did nothin wron
if there's no trust
then really the relationship's a bust
2006-08-13 07:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by tb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shows that you don't have any trust or faith in your partner. If they found out you would be gone like yesterday's lunch
(idk what the hell made me use that analogy)
2006-08-13 07:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by Pink Tigger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, If you don't trust them why are they your partner?
2006-08-13 07:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, lots of people use the P. I. route
2006-08-13 07:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very insane
2006-08-13 07:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋