I bet this topic has come up so many times..........but really when is the right time to have sex?
2006-08-13 07:29:27 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You wait as long as you think you should. If you feel like it's too soon then don't do it. wait until you are ready and you know that that guy won't leave you because that is all he wants. Maybe you should tell the guy that you aren't going to have sex until you are married and see if he stays with you. then you will know if that is the right gut to be sleeping with.
2006-08-13 07:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by greeneyes 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There truly is no "right time". The right time is when you both want to have sex. Considering he is a guy, that is probably as soon as he sees you, so when you are in agreement with him, you're all set. Most likely, if you tell him you want him, I doubt he's going to turn you down. So, when you're ready, the time is right. Just make sure you have some protection on hand, or else things might get a little tricky as you're driving around hunting for condoms.
2006-08-13 07:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only have a small window of opportunity..
So, I think it needs to go down in the first hour..
It really depends on the situation.. How long have you known the person?..Is it your first date? Did you pick him up in a bar?.. Are you just looking for some late night lovin?
If your wanting any kind of relationship with this person than you should wait until at least your 3rd date..
If not.. well then.. get busy..
2006-08-13 07:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by dbrady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care about our opinions? Some will say right away and some will say wait until marriage. Only you can make this choice. You'll regret it if you take bad advice from other people on this. Maybe you should be talking to a family member or loved one about this. They can give you a more heart-felt perspective than you'll get online.
2006-08-13 07:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
assuming you are a girl...as you mean meet? or as in a bf? either way you should be in love first thats how i feel when i meet a girl. if you meet the right guy you'll both no, there isnt a right answer here. but usually 5-6 months. but in between you can do other stuff.
2006-08-13 07:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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The only right time is when you feel ready to enter that
part of a relationship, this varies widely between people
so everyone will have a different feeling about it.
Dont bow to pressure from anyone, just wait until you
know it is right for you and you are in a relationship where
you want this to happen, then it will and you will have no
concerns as it will be what you genuinly want for yourself.
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2006-08-13 07:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait to the end of the first date but seriously it's when you feel comfortable and happy that the relationship will last longer than 1 night
2006-08-13 12:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by paul s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait at least for 2 to 3 months so you know if he is really interested in a long term relation but if you just want to have fun with him then there is no minimum limit
2006-08-13 07:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its when you feel comfortable. But get to know the person. And don't do it on the first date. And don't do it because they are pressuring you. Do it when its right for you. If you move to fast it could ruin the realtionship before it starts.
2006-08-13 07:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think is depends on the guy...cause i had my first boyfriend and we waited for 3 months and with my last bf ( a few years after the first hehe) we had sex on our second date and we were together for 4 years
2006-08-13 07:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋