couple of weeks ago my son and my friends son both 4yrs old ws @ my home in the basement when my child who is being raised my me came running upstairs while i was on the phone with the boys mother and another neighbor. My child was histerical saying the boy sucked his penis. My child is very bright for his age and we have discussed this behavior preparing him for day care.. the other mothers heard him and I asked him to repeat it....when the other child interrupted him.saying he didnt.The mother of the other child screamed to me what did he do this time send him home i am tired of this..Something simular happened at his daycare and she is sick of it.I talked to the child telling him i am not mad nor will i hurt u but u have to tell the truth he then told me what he did. in another room i asked my son why did he let him do that and in his innocence he tol me "mommy i dont not know..He told me while he was bathing he was trying to wash it off, he was sad and mad. we dont talk to the
2006-08-13 07:21:05 · 12 answers · asked by twinleelee 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Hey, Lee Lee. I know a twin named "Lee Lee." What a coincidence. From Indiana. Anyhow, I am so sorry that this happened to your little precious angel and you have got a lot of stress on your hands, Mamma! Saturate your house and family with prayer and... PRAISE. They have the power to deliver you. Someone seems to be attempting to create a little monster in this little boy who visited your home. Do him and the world a favor by reporting this situation. His mother could have done so already, but it sounds like she hasn't. She could have at least warned you to keep a special eye on her child to prevent what obviously already happened in an even more public setting. The Grandmother needs either jail, punishment and rehabilitation or to stop exposing her blood to inappropriate behavior. Maybe it is a neighbor, but someone, a professional needs to get involved. For your son, don't wait to take him to talk to a professional. Pray that the Holy Spirit will block that from his rememberance while he is receiving his healing. And pray for your strength, sweety. Grace and peace to you honey.
2006-08-13 07:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally you are required to report it, otherewise you can get in trouble for knowing about it if it ever gets out. Chances are if this boy is doing this to other people, SOMEONE is going to get in trouble. Also, to save the little boy who might be getting 'molested' as you say, If his grandmother IS doing it, this boy may not be the only one. Make sure you do the right thing. Call the POlice's Office and ask them exactly what you need to do. REmember that you probably won't be friends with these people again. And some kids may be taken away. You just can't let this happen to the poor boy!
2006-08-13 14:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Troopers_Gurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would make a police report and then call CPS before the police make the report. I am going through something similar the best thing you can do is talk with son and explain what that boy did to him was wrong and your not going to allow him to do that to him again. Keep them away from each other if they go to school together switch your child has to know that it was wrong and it wasn't his fault but he needs to know you still love him and that you will protect him. Good Luck! Sorry this had to happen to you 2. Where did this other boy learn to do this? That si the question at hand!
2006-08-13 14:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jill1012 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your details got cut off. So sorry this happened to your son. That other boy has some major problems. This is not normal. Call the police, file a report. This has to stop and they will pursue it. The other boy has to have had something happen to him. I'm so sorry, but do not delay, call the police. If they don't do anything for some crazy reason, call your local CPS or similar agency. Ask them for advice on how to help your son too. I don't know how affected your son will have been by what has happened, but seek professional advice on how to make sure he is ok too.
2006-08-13 14:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by teachinmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it sounds like an older person is doing this to the other child which has made him display this behaviour too. Firstly keep your child away and secondly get the authorities involved - you could be protecting this other innocent child from abuse elsewhere. You can't not do anything at all, no matter how horrible it seems, as an adult you owe it to all the children to be protected, in whatever way you can. Good luck
2006-08-13 14:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This needs to be reported to the police or Child Protective Service. your son needs to see a counselor specialized in sexual abuse, they have ways to help a child talk about what is going on to find out things, also your child needs to NEVER be near the person you suspect, you have to protect him even if it's just a suspicion. I hope you get things figured out, that is an awful story :(
2006-08-13 14:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BOTH children need to see a counselor. You need to contact Children's Services right away!! Even if the boy isn't being molested by the person you believe to be doing it he wasn't born knowing this behavior. He had to have learned it somewhere and he needs some help. Call right away.
2006-08-13 14:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by JL's Mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think there is sexual abuse with the little boy then you can call someone to come and, they will come out and talk to the mother and the little boy. Its better to get this solved now than letting him live threw it all his life.
2006-08-13 14:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey this is so sad and it's horrible, contact cps or the police immediately they have to talk to the kids parents, what is going on, can u imagine what is happening and u dont know about ? dont let ur kid be near that kid again.
2006-08-13 14:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the police now! Others-wise you could get in trouble for not reporting it!
2006-08-13 15:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋