she's 21 and has showed interest in me but then again i am like 11 years older. What do i do? I just want to do the right thing
2006-08-13 07:13:20 · 13 answers · asked by Are you for real? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, thanks for the advice on my enlistment questions. To answer yours, ignore the age for just a moment and ask yourself what you want from this. If it's about something long-term, look at what you have in common, the compatibility of your long-term goals, your values, whether she's beautiful or just hot, you know.
If it's not about long-term, go for it with that understanding clear between you. As long as everyone knows what's up, each persron can make his or her own mind up.
Peace.
2006-08-13 07:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny Tezca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe that age is the difficulty here, it has more to do with whether you are compatible, get along and most of all like each other. Although the problem may arise as whether or not the power you have in the relationship due to your 'seniority' is oppressive to her, and do others see it that way? Does she have the maturity to overlook the age difference? Do you?
2006-08-13 07:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jon Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really think that age is an importance then dont, as long as both of you are mature enough to evaluate this situation and make the best of it. Being older or younger doesnt neccesarily mean that one is more or less mature. Just follow your heart man.
2006-08-13 07:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are attracted to older men. They see older men as more mature and can have a better relationship with them. Go for it.
2006-08-13 07:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she is interested. Some women don't care about age.
2006-08-13 07:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beuty is not the only thing you have to check on...
so if you want to make a good choice just try to know if she´s an intelligent person and if you have things in common
2006-08-13 07:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number. Give a shot and see if you're compatible.
2006-08-13 07:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is talk to her an find out if the feeling is mutual. Do it carefully though. If she doesn't feel he same way same my be nice about and again she may not
2006-08-13 07:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y'all are both adults that's not a bad thing i was 24 and he was 48 we was married 6 years but it was a good thing,
2006-08-13 07:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by wewamom2503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pursue her. You are both adults; your age does not matter.
2006-08-13 07:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋