i'm in 22, but in my life, i just could find 3 good friends. one of them was my boy friend, he left me 2 weeks ago. he cheated on me. and another 2 friends, we aren't in contact with each other often. please chear me up. i feel there's no one in this world who wants me. i feel so helpless.
2006-08-13 07:08:57 · 20 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is because u give ur self that feeling
u r not alone all people love u that is if u love them truely from ur heart
having few friends doesnt means u r lonely it means u choose best friends not all friends
and when u said that u left ur bfriend because he cheated at u
it gave me an impression that u r good girl and respect ur self
u r not alone u have god with u
2006-08-13 07:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that you are so lonely. It is hard I know because I have been there. Believe me when I tell you that this too shall pass and you will be full of joy again one day. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel but you have to truly believe that within yourself. Good friends are so hard to find. Most will not stick around, precious few will hold on. You are only 22.. You have so much more to see and do. I am always up for a chat if you would like to IM me. I have been known to be a good listener and a great friend. God Bless
2006-08-13 14:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, you are not lonely, it is actually that you did not know that there are people who loves you but it is just that they did not want to show it. And my advice to you is to just be optimistic in everything and always look forward and don't brood over the past as this will make you sadder. For your boyfriend, just think that it is much more luckier for you rather than he being with you now and keeping you in the dark of him cheating you. Well, life is always full of ups and downs but don't worry people say that there will always be a rainbow after a heavy rain or a storm.. come on!! you are not alone cos you just got a new friend here which is me! see!! you are really not alone!
2006-08-13 14:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather have 2 good friends than 20 acquaintances. You
should definitely try to do more things with them.
However, you can increase the probability of meeting interesting
people by doing things you might not expect, such as taking
a pottery class or doing volunteer work.
Surround yourself with people doing interesting things and
you'd be surprised how quickly you become part of the pack.
2006-08-13 14:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the house get you a different envirment girl life is to short to live it miserable. go get in a bubble bath .get you a candle light bath shut the world out and get dressed get out if you only goto the store the moon has been full and all has broke lose here too but you feel helpless and you cant sit around feeling sorry for yourself now go do something ... have fun i hope you feel better.
2006-08-13 14:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by wewamom2503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let it get to u. everyone has to have problems in this life. some have health problems, some are blind, some are deaf, some were born to abusive parents, some are poor, etc.
this is ur challenge in life. just keep trying...hard to say exactly why it's a difficulty for u. could be anything from not putting in encough time for them, not meeting the right people, the way u converse does not effectively represent what u r thinking, etc.
2006-08-13 14:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by chloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, our self worth has to be dependant on what we know, not who we know, ok? Go to school on your off hours, get involved in clubs and stop thinking about yourself. Get into a gym and exercise if you want to be self centered for something worthwhile. Read books that challenge your imagination. Seek constantly to improvewhat you were yesterday. To have friends, one has to be a friend, so seek friends in what you do best. You may also be able to change jobs if you find something your excited about doing. Change your haircolor, we have so many alternitives to moping about, pick one and then stick to it.
2006-08-13 14:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look is like this move on, the more friend you have the more trouble you got I have about 100 friend, I don't say home,i wish they would live me a lone, sometimes how do i do it, will the way to make friends is to be a friend when you meat someone talk to them like you know them all you life ,take charge. good luck
2006-08-13 14:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by powernewfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need o get out a bit, go for walks, get a pet.... something to keep you active. arrange to go out with your freinds somewhere. If they are good freinds they would be happy to see you and chear you up.
You will be lucky if the idiots on here will give you a good answer.
2006-08-13 14:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by robynbiker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Hot or Not and post a picture. You can find some new friend their easily. Hope you feel better real soon.
2006-08-13 14:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋