Of things like if a woman is pregnant should they get married even if they don't love strongly each other,or if a guy and a girl are together many years should they get married even if they had a problems lately?I want your oppinion on this question
2006-08-13 06:32:24 · 9 answers · asked by Crazy_DIAMOND 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
no, marriage isnt the solution to things like that. Marriage is supposed to be for two people who love each other and want to be together forever, not a way out of things!
2006-08-13 06:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by ♥SexylOve16♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Taking an unstable, problomatic, new, abusive etc type relationship and making the couple go thru a ceremony and sign a marriage certificate will magicly solve ALL problems. See, on the wedding night, this magical 'problem fixing' fairy will slide down a rainbow on a unicorn and wave its wand and...poof! Everything is hunky doory. Now that guy that knocked up the girl on the first date simply because they were both drunk at a party will want to stay with her forever and ever and love only her, and that couple that lived together but has had problems wont have any more problems.... the abuser in the relationship will suddently stop abusing.... marriage fixes everything!
Pay no attention to that 50% divorce rate behind the curtain... marriage is the great and powerful Oz.....
2006-08-13 13:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by the master of truth 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. IMHO a wedding should be a natural progression down the path of a relationship, not a forced march for whatever reason.
Marriage will not magically "fix" any problems that already exist in a relationship. If anything, it will make them worse.
If people think that somehow, "Oh, things will be different when we're married" or "He won't do that once we get married" or "She'll do that differently when we get married" they're setting themselves up for failure.
2006-08-13 14:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Marriage is not the solution. That is why there are sooooo many divorces. Too many people get married for all the wrong reasons.
2006-08-13 13:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A wedding or marriage is not a solution.
2006-08-13 13:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by treday25 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. That will just end in divorce. If you're having problems and you don't fix them and get married anyway, it will just get worse.
2006-08-13 14:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by renee1724 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no some times it can make things worse
2006-08-13 14:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by pixi_kitten2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WEDDINGS JUST MAKE MORE PROBLEMS.
2006-08-13 16:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by petasucks101 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, this is not the anser --don't do it you will only regret it
2006-08-14 18:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋