I was involved with this one guy for like a month and a half and he left me for some dumb reason. But it was my fault. I have strong feelings for him like almost in love. We talk all the tyme and he tells me he still has feelings for me but it just wouldnt work.
Fast Forwarding
He has a g/f and I have a b/f now. but we styll got feelings for each otha. My b/f, i started talking to him last year and he did me wrong. He didnt want to be with me or anything but this yr he kept askin me out so i got with him but i dont really like him. I think im just with him cuz he kept askin me out. I styll have feeling for the 1st guy. So should i leave my b/f or forget about the 1st guy?
2006-08-13 06:31:48 · 14 answers · asked by Nellz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get rid of both of them. sounds like you are just a "back burner" person for the first guy, and that's no way to be. if you're heart is not truely with the second guy. what's the point in being with him, either?
2006-08-13 06:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart! Who treats you better? IS the old guy still wanting to get with you? Keep talking to him. I have an old crush that lasting over 12 years. Even through me having a kid and marring someone else. But every time i saaw my old crush, my heart melted. We remained friends thru it all. Then when the one i married did me wrong, my good old friend was there for me. Now we are married, and i am truely in love. I know we will always be there for eachother, because we always have been. You will have that too, if you hold on to him as a friend, until the time is right!
2006-08-13 13:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hun, Don't leave ur bf, stay w/ him. Try to forget about the 2nd guy. He is probably having the same problem. But it will be better if u try to forget, and if sumday he [[the 2nd guy that u have feeling 4]] ask you out, it will be alot easier to think if u should say yes or no. Wish you all of my luck, :^D <3
2006-08-13 13:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Hot'n'Cute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know that what you call love is not love at all, you are just lusting after someone. If someone loves you sincerely he should treat you with care. He should not use you or dump you.
The problem girls yield themselves to men and fornicate and misuse their bodies, a man gets tied of you because he didn't love you in the very beginning he just wanted to dispose of his lust on you. A person who loves you will handle you with care and will not lust after you or desire to fornicate with you which is sinful.
A person who loves you, will wait till both of you (him and you) are married and will take care of you when things are bad or good. How do you know that the person loves you? You can know if he is character who understands you and doesn't push you around to go to bed with him till the day you are married. The person who pushed you to fornicate before you are married is not a true lover and you should continue with him.
Come to Jesus and live a perfect peaceful life.
2006-08-13 13:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lokoka Today 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first... dump the new guy for the reason that your already said yourself, you don't really like him. As for going back with the last guy let it be for a while and if its meant to happen it will.
2006-08-13 13:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear m'lady,
Stay with the person you feel for the most. Don't mix lust and love. The person who treats you the best gets the brownie points.
Kind Regards,
Ben
2006-08-13 13:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
" He still has feeling for me but it just wouldn't work"??He is telling you in advance what is in store for you, are you up for some real pain? then go back. My advice? : stay away from those two guys, none of them is worth the suffering is in store for you, but you won't listen, you'll follow your hormones, it is up to you
2006-08-13 13:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. If you don't think the relationship your in will workout then why be in it. The longer you wait the harder it is and the more attached to you he will become
2006-08-13 13:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by JR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the first guy!! definetly, dont waste ur time on someone u dont even like, when u could be in love with someone else sweety!
2006-08-13 13:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by ♥SexylOve16♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do them both for a while and decide which one you like better. That way you keep all your options open.
2006-08-13 13:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋