I met a guy 3 years ago. after 6 months we had sex together. didn't want to get into relationship. one year passed and we did it again, no feelings just sex. since then we do it when we both feel like... we are both single, and in the meantime trying to find someone to be with( I am 27 he's 29) , as we both say it wouldn't work out for us 'cos we don't even like eachother;), have totally different point of views and etc.
I know that it will last until one of us gets involved with someone else...
what do you think about it? do you find it immoral?
2006-08-13 06:16:46 · 17 answers · asked by ywe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, nothing wrong with a booty call while you wait to find someone with the whole package !! Everyone has a sex drive.
Have you seriouslly thought about giving things a go with this guy, as there is obviously something thta keeps bringing you back together. Opposites do attract, and you never know until you try...whats the worst that could happen ??
2006-08-13 06:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my own conviction, yes i deem as immoral coz you juz have sex for the sake of it.. sex should be something great and shared with someone u love or have feelings for and not juz another thing to do at the end of the day.. In another way, think positive: since u can be together and have great sex, why not take one step forward and try developing this into a relationship? U never know..Nothing is impossible :)
2006-08-13 06:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by azhen_msia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i really don't think there's anything wrong with that. The only problem i can see is if one of you did start to develop feelings for the other, and if one of you met someone else and got involved with them.
2006-08-13 06:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its Ok If Its What You Both Want Live & Let Live And You Are A Lucky Girl
2006-08-13 06:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you are not weird, it is a was lucky and helpful situation you have found your self in. Hard to acquire but enjoy able to have, just make sure that when you do have a special some one else you wait til it's over before you go back to this friend.
2006-08-13 19:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ivy Leaf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with enjoying sex.
Lots of people are taught to feel it's wrong, and will probably criticise you for doing it too.
But in truth, it brings you both pleasure and doesn't hurt anyone else. It's nobody else's business and nobody else has the right to judge you for it.
2006-08-13 06:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Wax Crayon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bonking buddies is the best way to be!
None of that relationship crap, you can do your own thing and are not answerable to anyone!
People should be more relaxed about sex, it's only natural afterall!
2006-08-13 07:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by lunapilot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all!
I'm glad there are other people out there that think the same way as me!!!
I wish you well in what you do and I hope you have lots of fun along the way!
XXXXX
2006-08-13 06:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by razza raych 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't see a problem with that arrangement at all. as long as you are both careful. In fact, it makes sense to me. :)
Good luck with finding your perfect partner!
2006-08-13 06:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by BryonyBeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is what you make it, or some people is is very intimate and personal, for others its a very enjoyable desire that need fed, if both of you agree to it, than there should be nothing wrong.
2006-08-13 06:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by Reverand Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋