should i break up with my boyfriend when he receives letters from his ex about getting back together?

Answer 1

Since you know about them, he's probably not hiding it, so no, you shouldn't break up with him. He doesn't have any say over what she does.

Look at it this way, he obviously has a choice between the two of you, and he's with you.

Answer 2

In my opinion, this whole situation is a not a good reason to break up
with your boyfriend. IT WOULD BE A REASON IF HE HASN'T TELL YOU NOTHING and herself would find accidentally those letters. This would mean that he still wants his ex. YOU HAVE TO DISCUSS WITH HIM and find a way to keep her away from your relationship. BUT AVOID STARTING A FIGHT because this will surely not end up as you want. IT'S NOT YOUR BUSINESS TO TALK TO HER BUT HIS. What I mean by that? He is the one that has to confront his obsessed ex. If you try to call her -for example- and threaten her that next time she sends a letter she will be sent to hospital, TRUST ME, SHE WON'T GIVE UP!!! Why? Because she will understand that YOU HAVE THE PROBLEM AND YOUR BOYFRIEND STILL WANTS HER!!!!

Answer 3

They'll get back together if you break up with him,it is not his fault, he just should put the letters on the garbage without open it, and you stop being a pest about it. You are pushing him away

Answer 4

You can't stop the letters from coming. Is he reading them? He should be sending them all back without opening them! She'll get the message. If he has to read them, or tells you he doesn't want to hurt her feelings, thats a sign of no respect for you, in my opinion. If that's the case, thent his relationship is headed down the tubes. Get rid of him!

Answer 5

no. how did he start recieving the letters?? did he send her something first or did she?? but if he just got them outa the blue, its not his fault that his ex is crazy.. she's only trying to break u up.. thats what she wants to c is u break up make the guy sad and then she makes her move. only break up if he's thinking about it b/c if hes replying to them then either hes giving her alead on him or a rejection..
remember if she wants him and he doesnt want her then its good. she is the one jelous of u because U R THE ONE THAT HAS HIM...
**good luck and best wishes!!!**

Answer 6

Help him answer the letter. There will always be other people that fancy him and some that he will fancy. The same is true of you. The grass is always greener ... Each or you should be the best to each other that you can be. A long marriage and health children and grand children should be your goal.

Answer 7

Hey Starygirl, all u hav 2 do is tell ur boyfriend that u r uneasy w/ her writtin him an that he shud write her back a letter tellin her to not write him back

Answer 8

That would depend upon how he reacted to the letters. He can't make her stop writing, but he can tear up the letters without reading them.

Answer 9

Why do you ask? Why would you want to break up with him?

Is he encouraging these letters? If yes, then, yes, break up with him. If not, then, again, I ask why you'd want to do this?

If the letters are making you jealous (even though he isn't interested in her any more), then please get a grip. Your jealousy is endangering the relationship.

Answer 10

Yes, in my opinion. Generally speaking, you shouldn't go out with someone who is divorced in the first place, and you're interfering with him getting back to his wife.

This would be especially true if his wife was never unfaithful to him, in which case there would be no good reason for him to have divorced her.