2006-08-13 05:15:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok....well Jay here is the thing. I like him and appreciate him and I don't if I lvoe him or not. There is this guy that lives in London, England who is really nice and he seems to get me but my boyfriend gets me too and he is concrete. Why are my feelings so mixed up?!
2006-08-13 05:23:46 · update #1
It's pretty obvious you know the answer to your own question. If you question your feelings then you obviously don't love the man. Take your time--Love is something to be treasured and appreciated.
2006-08-13 05:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. Relax. Think. Think about all the reasons you're with him. Don't just consider the good, look at all sides of him. Relax. Then ask yourself, do you love him, and if you can't answer "yes" without that same uncertainty then you don't. Don't let other people tell you about how perfect you are together or visa-versa. Don't ask other people what love is, then compare what you're feeling to that. It won't work. Only YOU can answer this. If you have a doubt, after considering you and your boyfriend without the advice of other people, then it's not real.
2006-08-13 12:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by Elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine your life without him in it.
So? Do you see yourself having more fun and doing things much differently? Or would you miss him terribly??
Sometimes we don't appreciate what we have until it is gone. Just remember - the greener grass isn't always as green as it looked once you get on the other side of that fence!
Good luck!
2006-08-13 12:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by mrsmac_3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we talking true love here or what? like hes the one love or something else. if we are talking true love thats ok ur not supposed to fall in love with ur first or 5th boyfreind...if u dont even reall y "like"(for lack of a better word) him anymore then u have a problem
2006-08-13 12:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think becuse he give u what u need and understand u
that is why u love him and not loving him same time
u love him as person who take care of u and realy nice with u
and u dont love him because u dont want to be in misstake
i think its not love u just feel comfortable toward him that is all
2006-08-13 12:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r not sure then nothing can happen...
if u dont no what love exactly is... i shall tell u
u think of tht person all day
u day dream
u like his/her company
u wish to b wit him/her all day all nite...
everythg feels so good ... so beautiful....so pure
thts love according to me
now u have 2 decide.... tc
2006-08-13 12:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by hitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come you do not know if you love him or not. Tell me more and I shall tell you what you really feel about him.
2006-08-13 12:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant help you there...its a feeling you will just know when he holds you tight while you slowly dase off to dream about him...GoodLuck
2006-08-13 12:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jessika J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Miss But You Need More Details!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-13 12:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by holly t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to talk to your bf about this because what ever you do its going to have a massive effect on him
2006-08-13 12:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋