How do you get them to talk or do you just wait it out?
What if they turn their problem into a fight and act like you are the one that is mad?
2006-08-13 05:11:56 · 20 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's best to let people be themselves to handle problems in their own way without questioning them as to why they aren't more like you. So, if you KNOW a man is upset when he's quiet, why mess with him to force communication out of him you know isn't forthcoming? Isn't that just asking for trouble? How hard can it be to leave a guy alone for awhile until he sorts stuff out? For that matter, what does it matter WHY we're like that if you already know it's a fact that we are like that? Be yourself, and give him the freedom to be himself. No one can ask for more than that.
2006-08-13 05:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys aren't taught to talk things out the way women do. Read "Men are From Mars and Women Are from Venus" for more about the way men and women communicate differently.
2006-08-13 05:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by dSweetBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is for some men. I always say it out when I am in a bad mood. it is not my wish that anything should bother me much. So when it does I like to voice out.
2006-08-13 05:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask if they want 2 talk about it,
if they say no -> here is ur move, hehehe its called an oke doke
just act like there is nothing wrong and carry on a normal conversation, lol then they will cut u off and start venting
ima man, this is proven, u always have 2 think 1 step ahead of others lol
2006-08-13 05:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by p34nu7bu773rj3lly7im3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually what is bothering them is something a female said. They know that if they start talking about the problem they might say something that will make her say something even worse. So they are better off just suffering in silence.
2006-08-13 05:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman have different brains - especially the part of the brain devoted to communication, the network is much greater in females.
Men find anger easy due to testosterone and women who lack large amounts of testostereone cannot understand this anger nor the lack of communication from men.
Men are not women and vice versa.
2006-08-13 05:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I'm pist its best for me to walk away to cool off a bit because If i'm pushed or nagged for an answer I might just blow into full rage instead of the response u want. Just walk away give it time he will come to u sooner or later probably with I'm sorry babe and if u wanna talk now we can or later if u want.
2006-08-13 05:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can't answer for everyone obviously, but i know that i typically get quiet because i want to be left alone. it means we no longer feel like arguing about something, or were upset about something but havn't completly figured it out yet:-) so we just want time to think it through, and typically if you push us about it we will make rash decisions, say things we don't mean and blow everything out of proportion. or leave us alone and we' usually think our way out of it:-) and then its not a problem anymore
2006-08-13 05:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by PTAP85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read men are from mars and women are from Venus its says we men like to think about our problems by ourselves and women like to express them to another good book!!!
2006-08-13 05:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by lopezjl137 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your drunk again ? This is the cleanest Question I've red with the words "suck","spread",and "love" in it . Good going dudette
2006-08-13 05:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋