I'm friends with a lot of guys, and i get the feeling that they like me, but they never make a move. is it me or them just being shy?
2006-08-13 05:07:54 · 17 answers · asked by Danityxkanexluvah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once you have one, they caught your eye what are you going ask next....for a kiss?
Get some of your girlfriends and you'll see soon enough.
2006-08-13 05:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Carmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not clear what U really wish. U need friends, U have a lot of Boyfriend as U told. What Next ?
As U never pointed anyone, But Insisted on the whole Lot, making the first move, It seems that U perhaps didnt have sex ever, wish that very much but is shy to go crazy for that.
U R just not sure If U can really attract men, never really letting others to know what is going on in Ur mind . Thats the problem in U dear,U R very Introvert, and for that reason, the boys never understand U, and never dared to ask U something that can coin them as being naughty. Someone has to make the first move, the other need to give the concent. May Be, U were given the signals that U didnt pickup, and so never reciprocated the concent to that.
Be alert, may be, someone among them wish to be with U for life. Pick him up correctly, and get into the world of Ur FANTACY.
2006-08-13 13:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Prasun B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy and you sound alot like me alot i am friends with so many guys but i think that that is the problem right there. You are friends and i think that sometimes thats all that they see you as. I have liked a guy for along time and i know that he likes me to but when i got my other friend to ask him if he did like me and why he had not said anything to me he said " the same reason she has not said anything to me" and that was being shy. Have you tried to make the first move? worked for me. Good Luck!@!!!
2006-08-13 12:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably them being really shy and possibly expecting you to make a move. You should give it a try and even if they aren't into you that way, if they're still your friends, they'll stick around!
2006-08-13 12:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd assume that they want to make a move, but are afraid to since you may be so shy. But you're good though. If they really do like you, they'll tell you in time... don't go around asking because it may come across in the wrong fashion... like they may think you're desperate...
2006-08-13 12:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by dukeofhmong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your body language is sending them the wrong signal... or bieing shy brings that out... they could be afraid to make a move but if you like one of them then ask them out solo and just hang out! if you two are alone more will happen then in a group!
Good luck
MAd luv
2006-08-13 12:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they probably just like you as a friend or they would have made there move by now. you are friends so they can't be that shy.
2006-08-13 12:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by mescalin57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe their just bein shy if they dont't know if your interested in them they wont make a move because they think your going to knock them back and then the will feel humiliated why not try making a move on them
2006-08-13 12:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a subtle move yourself and see where it leads. A lot of guys fear once the friendship line is crossed the relastionship is never what it once was.
2006-08-13 12:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by David G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be either one. But don't stress out over it. If a guy really wants to ask you out, he will. If he's happy just being your friend, then leave it at that.
2006-08-13 12:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by dSweetBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how many guys you like that are your friend and you make the first move
2006-08-13 12:10:52 · answer #11 · answered by talented_loveable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋