OK i been goin out wid my X 4 11 mounths she was medium lookin, same wid the persnailty....
after 11 mounths i had relised we had lost the spark... we where arguing all the time so i broke things off... then almost recently i meet anouther girl... she is beautiful and has the most amazing persnailty....
the prob is my X relli wnts me bck, she is falling 2 peices she is drinking more and is also becomin very depressed.. wt do i do?!
as i did think if she was happyeir then jst date her but in the long run taht nvr work and i find it so hard 2 cheat and don't wanna risk losin my new g/f!!
plz give me advice!! wt would u do i my situation?!
2006-08-13 05:03:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay wid the new girl
if u guys break up( i hope u dont)
go back to ur X dont cheat cuz ull feel guilty wen u go out!!!
2006-08-13 05:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are with someone new then let the past go...you are only going to hurt your new girlfriend and you wont' be doing the ex a favor by getting back with. If you feel like you must intervene in some way then talk to her about getting some help--counseling or whatever works--and then step back and let her figure things out on her own. She's an emotional wreck right now and hooking back up with her just because she is drinking more would be one of the biggest mistakes you can make
2006-08-13 05:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by prickett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your ex to stop. Tell her that there are other people out there for her and you just weren't for her. Don't go out with her again. It'll hurt her worse after a while when she finds out you don't love her. Tell her to keep in touch but stop going down the wrong path. Tell her you still care about her and you are still there for her but not as in dating. It's important that she knows that you are still there for her but just comfort her by telling her you just aren't her match and you aren't right for her. Good luck!
2006-08-13 05:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UR SO SHALLOW it doesnt matter how a person looks from outside its inside that counts i dont even want to answer ur question shallow person
2006-08-13 05:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with your heart, who do you care for more? you and your X had alot of memories but if you are over her then it's time to move on, she will get over it, but if you care for your X more then the new gf then maybe you should give it another shot?
2006-08-13 05:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Megs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not responsible for your ex falling apart.
Those are her issues, she has to deal with them. You are not responsible for how she acts, thinks or feels.
2006-08-13 05:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by wantoxcape 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's unfortunately for your ex that she is not dealing well with your breakup. However, you have no obligation to her. She is not your problem anymore.
2006-08-13 05:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by sahm2boys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date both and be open and honest that you are doing so.
2006-08-13 05:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by The Princess of Pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is NEVER the answer my friend. whatever you do, do not allow that to be one of your options.
2006-08-13 05:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋