what do u do when u have three guys that u like and love but dont know how to choose between the three. i mean each guy serves a purpose so how do u choose???? i need to know ASAP!!!!!
2006-08-13 04:50:22 · 17 answers · asked by lovely leslie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
weigh out all the pros and cons of all 3 guys drop the 2 that have the least
2006-08-13 04:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by jackie84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I an't female but you should let each of them know the other guys are there. The problem may just take care of it's self by all three dumping you or you might be left with the one who is willing to shair you if that is what it takes to keep you.
Me I would just let you in on my other girl freinds and who knows we could get everyone together and and let everyone pair off. Or just start a swingers group.
What ever you want to do. But you are doing the guys wrong. Unless you are an easy lay and they are just playing you.
2006-08-13 05:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to choose, and each of them fulfills a different purpose, then I don't think any of them are right for you. If you can explain to them that you have needs that none can fill on their own, and you can't make a decision, let them make the decision. Maybe you just aren't ready for a committed relationship at this point in your life?
2006-08-13 04:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by sherrie_66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we dont chose guys because of purpose; we chose a guy because he is what we want, and how he makes us feel about ourselves,
1 does he love me
2 does he want me
3 he respect me
4 he cares for me
5 understands me
6 understand my feelings
7 has respect for my parents and my family
8 and last but not the least what does he makes me feel about myself
that are the things which i look for in a guy not the purpose he sereves me
the cable guy serves cable purpose
the store guy serves store purpose it doesn't mean i will date them or choose between them
2006-08-13 04:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by cc20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean each serves a purpose? It sounds like you are just treating them like objects.
2006-08-13 04:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get 3 pieces of paper, write their names on each one and make a list of each one on their paper of pros and cons. And hope to god you aren't playing all three because if they find out you basically lost all three.
2006-08-13 05:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decisions, decisions.
Which qualities do you think are most important?
Which guys do you think are likely to be able to develop those
attributes if they don't already have them?
Who do you think is most likely to want to stay with YOU a long
time. Remember that physical attraction is, at best, fleeting.
2006-08-13 04:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know but here is an idea; compare all to your previous guys and each 3 of them, who ever is the best you get to choose. or hook up with 3 of them.your disscion. i know it's hard
2006-08-13 04:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by kuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the one you love the most and the one that you want to be with the most
2006-08-13 04:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by jenette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't choose. And don't allow them to make you choose. Tell them you will make your choice when you are ready.
2006-08-13 04:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by The Princess of Pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋