..about anal?

Question

okay please don't say anything rude i'm just asking.. i never do it with my bf because i think it would hurt too much .. so i have 2 questions:
1. is my bf really missing out ona lot because i'd feel bad if he was?
2. how much does it hurt?
Thnx!

Answer 1

First off your very kind to be thinking of your BF's enjoyment.

Secondly, don't worry about not doing it....

Thirdly, yes it would hurt you. Use lots of lube and go slow and have he be gentle.

I have done it to many women and the feeling of tightness is great.

Answer 2

I am a male and some women love it and some think it hurts. Depends on the woman. As far as the guy goes it is just a domation thing and is really nothing better then normall sex. It just seems to be better because it is something he hardly ever gets to do.

One more thing is it will give both of you an infection. When he pulls out and goes in the correct hole it will give you an infection which will show up in a week or two and on him it will not show for about a year. But he will just keep giving it back to you and you over and over again. Make sure he uses protection and washes up before you do anything else with him.

Answer 3

It hurts A LOT in the beginning. I've never made it past the beginning. I have some friends who've let their men try it and they said once they got going, it got better, but you need a lot of lubricant...You are also more likely to have the runs afterwards. He isn't missing out on anything other than the taboo of it and something most guys want to do. It's up to you if you want to go there with him.

Answer 4

I think that he is just curious and unless you are really lose you know where he isn't missing out on anything. He probably heard something about it from a friend or has a past girl friend he did it with. I would think it would hurt but some seem to enjoy it. To each their own I would say

Answer 5

1) Yes, he's missing out on a wonderful experience, and so are you. You should do everything you can to fulfill your boyfriend's sexual desires, and in so doing you will fulfill your own.

2) It hurts a bit at first, so make sure you're well lubed and that he goes SLOW and gentle at the start. As you become accustomed to the experience the pain will fade.

Answer 6

Don't do anal just because he wants to...do it if you want to. I wouldn't say he's missing out if you don't do it...it's only once in a great while, most people don't do anal every night. It hurts a lot at first, but if you take it easy then it's not so bad...remember to use lots of lubs and love!!!

Answer 7

No your bf is not missing out. There are plenty of ways to please him. If he complains thatr he his missing out then he's a crappy bf. No one has the right to make you feel guilty about something you don't feel comfortable with.

Yes it does hurt. Not to be gross but have you ever had trouble going and it hurt to go #2? Well that's what it feels like.

Answer 8

No he's not missing out on anything vital. Don't do something you don't want to do and if he's any kind of gentleman he won't push the issue knowing that you don't want to do it.

Anal hurts a lot the first few times and it can actually cause injury.

Answer 9

I think any man who wants to do anal with a girl is deep down really gay, why would u wanna stick it in her *** when da pussy is right there? This 1 girl wanted me to do it, i did try 2 stick it in there but it didnt fit and know if i did put it in there it would have been painful for both of us.

Answer 10

most guys love doing it so that i wouldent know all of them are diffrent about the first question. it does hirt if you dont have enough lube and if the guy isnt gental at first.. some girls get really into it and its a huge turn on others think it just hurts to bad..