2006-08-13 04:31:37 · 25 answers · asked by RACHEL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that same thing is happening to me, and what i have learned so far is, that they may not be mature enough to have a relationship like that in this point in their life. bet thing to do is keep yourself occupied; like with this sorry excuse for a hobby :). this is easier said than done of course, but it does help a lot. you need anything else send me a IM or message.
2006-08-13 04:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, that question just breaks my heart! I've been there and have probably felt exactly what you are feeling. The bottom line is that you can't force someone to love you and as painful as it is you have to leave those feelings alone. I actually moved to another city to get some distance between myself and the man that I knew would never love me the way I wanted him to. It worked and I have moved on and found a man who loves me the way I do him.
Good luck to you.
2006-08-13 11:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you love someone doesn't mean they will love you. unrequited love is very painful. we've all been there.
Think of a time some dork asked you out and you were too busy hugging masonary to even consider his offer. Put yourself in the dorks shoes. how you feel is how he felt. use this as an opportunity to make a commitment to be be more sensitive to others.
For what its worth thats wot I did.
2006-08-13 16:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Chriatian IV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As one who's been in a similar situation, I think part of it could be the eagerness with which you want to be loved back. ( I've had a real problem with that as well), so it's better to moderate your responses to them, and let them see you have a great deal of respect for yourself as well, then maybe they'll reciprocate. If not, you're no worse off than you were and your dignity's in tact.
2006-08-13 11:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not easy to answer that one.
Consider all the facts, and make a longterm decision that will let you have a life instead of hoping for a life you may never have.
Be honest with yourself, and don't waste your love on a loser.
2006-08-13 15:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by Featherman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it just happens that way. Just get on with your life and maybe he will change his mind. Meanwhile, know that you are a beautiful woman and that someone else will always be aroudn the corner waiting for you.
2006-08-13 11:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by dSweetBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make people love you so I would suggest dumping him and finding a man who will love you and treat you kind.
2006-08-13 13:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a two-way communication.
You look fine.
Dump him and buzz me, then you will know the difference.
2006-08-13 11:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't in the same place at the same time....give him some room and some time. If you do love him, this is what you must do.
2006-08-13 11:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He hurt your ego, didn't he. You're probably use to compliments galore on the way you look. But for every hot chick out there, there's a guy who doesn't want her.
2006-08-13 16:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by Perfect Specimen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋